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If your fear is that if Peter Obi becomes president, he would hunt down politicians or anybody that has been stealing from our common patrimony.
Then you are part of the probem of Nigeria.
You don't want Nigeria to move forward.
And you're thief and a bad Nigerian.
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Dear Son,
Marriage is MONEY.
Honeymoon, antenatal, postnatal,
babysitters, nannies, baby food, day care, household expenses and weekend getaway.
Don't waste money on an elaborate wedding ceremony if you don't have the funds for all the things I have mentioned above.
Women in happy marriages meet in real life and share experiences and strategies to further grow their homes.
Women in bitter or no relationships are on X, bickering over why one happy woman will give them a tip of the iceberg of her happy home.
Imagine unhappy people wanting to gag happy people with their agenda. A very loud audacity, if you ask me.
Dear woman,
the world needs and deserves your soft side. Don't get fooled. Being soft doesn't imply weakness, you are built to nurture and nurturing is best done in love, empathy and compassion. Being soft is about embracing your femininity, bask in it!🌹🖤🌹
🚨 9 Everyday Habits That Quietly Destroy Relationships (Most People Do #3 Daily)
No relationship just “ends.”
It dies slowly… in silence, in habits, in things people ignore.
You might think everything is fine,until one day, it’s not.
Here are 9 things quietly ruining relationships:
1. Keeping Quiet to Avoid Problems
You think you’re keeping peace… but you’re actually building distance.
2. Acting Like Effort is “Normal”
When appreciation disappears, love starts feeling like a duty.
3. Constant Complaining About Your Partner
Correction is okay. Constant criticism? That’s emotional damage.
4. “We’re Just Busy” Mentality
If you’re always too busy for someone, they’ll eventually stop needing you.
5. Bringing Up Old Issues
You forgave… but you didn’t forget. And now it’s poisoning everything.
6. Listening Just to Reply
Not listening to understand is one of the fastest ways to disconnect.
7. Never Saying “I’m Wrong”
Pride has ended more relationships than cheating ever will.
8. Phone Over Partner
If your phone gets more attention than your partner… that’s a problem.
9. Ignoring Emotional Needs
Love isn’t just being there physically. Emotional absence hits deeper.
An 11 year old girl came to register for antenatal at the hospital but said she was 17. We could clearly see she was not 17 so we pressed further until she said her real age.
We asked her and she said the man that impregnated her was the person that brought her to the hospital but he stayed outside at a distance. We came up with a plan to lure him in, then the police was alerted. They eventually came and took him away, while her parents were also contacted.
The next day I asked for update of the case and the police said they released the man because the girl’s father paid the man’s bail. The girl’s father said he gave the girl to the man as debt settlement of money he borrowed but couldn’t pay back.
How much did he borrow? ₦150k 🤦🏾♀️
Dear married men,
I operate a one income household, & I am the sole provider of my lovely family.
You don't have to be like me.
It's a choice that me and my lovely wife made.
If you are operating a two income household, there is nothing wrong with it.
But please know that as your wife is growing financially and in her career, you too need to grow equally or more.
And even if she outgrows you financially (because you are not God), do not delegate your primary duties to her because of it.
And if the entire duties are too much for you to carry, make sure that you carry the responsibility of feeding the home and paying the rent.
She can take care of the rest if you're not able to.
What your wife and children would eat, and where they would live, are more important than what they wear and other things they need to survive.
Your wife would appreciate and respect you, even if she's supporting you in those other areas.
Do not dim her growth because you're afraid of what she may become.
Appreciate her, and show her that if you had more, you'd do more or all.
Do not feel entitled to it.
And always remember:
Keep telling her that you know that you're owing her.
Even if you don't pay back until you die.
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