people lack accountability, then be like “you could've just talked to me”. no, i couldn't. you don't listen. you deflect. you gaslight. you make me feel like i'm the problem for bringing it up. so no, i stayed silent to protect my peace, not because i didn't want to fix.
The hardest truth to face as a woman is realizing that a man can stay with you for years without ever truly choosing you. He can enjoy your company, your body, your loyalty, and still never step into the role of making you is life partner.
i don't like dealing with people who make me feel like i'm losing my mind trying to get them to understand how i feel. I don't like having to keep shit bottled up inside. I don't like feeling like my feelings don't matter. I can't deal with anyone who makes me feel like that.
Can we just start over, ask me anything . . . & just have a clean slate ? Can we finally and actually acknowledge our feelings ? Can we do it right this time ? Because there’s nothing in this world, that I want more than that. (Thinking out loud) I hate how I feel 🥺
I cannot fuck with people who, when they're mad they say extremely hurtful things but when they calm down they want to backtrack and say they didn't mean it. YES, YOU DID. STAND ON IT.
To the woman who does everything alone, makes decisions alone, carries it all in silence, and never had anyone to fall back on, wherever you are sis, you’re going to win.
The people who cause you the most hurt, will then create false narratives around you, your experiences, and your character. They do this because in order to be honest about who you are, they would have to be honest about what they’ve done.
The people who cause you the most hurt, will then create false narratives around you, your experiences, and your character. They do this because in order to be honest about who you are, they would have to be honest about what they’ve done.
I’m sitting back quietly because this time, I don’t even have to do or say anything. The same people you disrespected for, about to show you what I saved you from. God told me move out the way, and I listened. Good luck,
Imagine losing a woman who doesn’t talk to multiple men, is well educated, family oriented, responsible, carries herself well, and has a pure heart. Embarrassing.
Idgaf how much I grow or how calm I get… I’ll never be okay with being disrespected. I’m all for peace, but I’m not letting nobody play with me. You not gone talk to me any kind of way, move funny like I won’t address it, or try to handle me like I don’t know my worth. I’m not letting nothing slide just to keep the peace, especially not at this age. I speak up. I distance myself. I set the record straight. One thing about me… I’m solid, but I’m not soft. And the moment I feel like you trying me, taking advantage of my kindness, or forgetting who I am… I’m gone remind you exactly how I don’t play about me.