Ngl some of you are walking love letters, and you don't even realise it. You light up rooms, shift atmospheres, and inspire people just by being you. It's really a very precious gift.
Nobody talks about how hard it is to watch your parents age. How you see them struggle with things that used to be easy. How a fear comes over you that you can’t really explain.
It’s real.
i’m finally coming to peace with the fact that you can’t keep tripping over what you can’t control, all you can do is stay solid on your end. Everyone gonna do what they want regardless of how you feel. Don’t lose your mind tryna figure out where you went wrong
what do you think this period in your life is trying to tell you? for me, it’s that no matter what — we aren’t as in control as we’d like to think. you can line up all of your marbles perfectly & one gust of wind or bump to the table can send them rolling.
We feel it in our body when we’ve outgrown a relationship. The conversations reflect our past self. We don’t share any real values. And a part of us feels drained from forcing the connection. Guilt of letting go is not a kind reason to hold on.
I love people that make others feel seen, heard, appreciated, supported, and loved. People with gorgeous hearts, open minds & pure intentions. The rare gems who make you feel deeply understood, give you total freedom to be yourself and make you feel beautiful just for being you.
my mom called me one night and said my sister got hit by and 18 wheeler
turns out, she saw it stopped in the middle of the road and thought she could drive underneath it “on some fast and furious shit” (my sister’s exact words) and got stuck 😭😭
you deserve a calm love with someone who gives you best friend energy, makes you laugh, and never stops flirting with you. someone who learns your love language just to treat you right and make you feel loved properly.
You deserve a healthy love with someone who hears you, sees you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you. Someone who is patient, communicates clearly, and creates a calm safe space to heal, grow, and bloom together. A love you never have to heal from.
as a highly considerate and empathetic person, you deserve to be with another highly considerate and empathetic person. i hope one day, you can heal enough of your trauma so that you can allow yourself to receive the love you give to others. instead of continuing to give it to people who remind you of the people who traumatized you.
here’s my advice, hug everyone you love a lot tighter. Never leave someone in an argument. Be present, say i love you more. Take a lot of pictures with the ones you love. You never know when it will be the last time you see them. Please dont take any second for granted.