the sexiest thing a man can do is learn you. not just love you, but understand you,know how to show up for you, recognize your silence, remember the little things, and make you feel seen. It's never about grand gestures; it's about being intentional in the ways that matter most
I think banyak orang sebenernya bukan cuma lagi nyari pasangan, tapi juga lagi nyari a sense of safety. Kadang pas akhirnya ada yang sayang, jadi terlalu cepat attached karena ngerasa, "finally, someone chose me." Padahal... kita juga deserve to be loved the right way.
Buku yg harus kamu baca minimal sekali seumur hidup‼️
“Tuesdays with Morrie”
Sinopsis📝
Tentang Mitch yang mencari ‘meaning of life’ dari semua kebosanan rutunitas yang dia jalanin. Sampai suatu ketika dia ketemu Morrie, Dosen Sosiologi Mitch pas kuliah. Pertemuan tidak sengaja berawal dari berita televisi yang membahas kondisi kesehatan Morrie yang mengidap penyakit saraf mematikan ALS.
Merasa bersalah karena telah melupakan janjinya untuk tetap berinteraksi, Mitch mengunjungi Morrie di rumahnya. Pertemuan ini berlanjut menjadi rutinitas setiap hari Selasa untuk berdiskusi. Dan ternyata, pertemuan tiap hari Selasa itu membuka mata Mitch atas pertanyaan kehidupan yang bermakna🥹🫂
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It's actually scary how Substack reads my mind and catches my recent self-doubt. I didn't search for this, it just appeared on my home feed like it was waiting for me. A timely reminder that it's okay, and that everything eventually comes to an end. I love this app so much.
Someone shared these Substack links with me this morning. You know that peace that comes with ikhlas. When you stop chasing what was never written for you and trust His plan, your heart grows lighter. What is meant for you will never miss you, what leaves was never meant to stay.
Please fall in love with someone who genuinely wants you, patiently waits for your messages, understands you even in your madness, talks to you after a fight. The right person sees the mess and moods but still chooses you.
🪵 you know what's louder than rejection? when someone replies but never asks you back. you ask, you show interest, you try. but they just... respond. stop overexplaining yourself to people who never even asked. some silences are answers too. you just took too long to accept it.
Dalam kerjaan dia kompeten. Tapi dalam hubungan romantis ternyata emotionally unavailable. Ada? Ada, dan BANYAK. 🙂
Emotionally unavailable tuh sederhananya dia nggak mampu hadir secara emosional. Maksudnya apa?
Misalnya kamu lagi sedih nih atau lagi ada masalah, terus kamu cerita ke pasangan kamu. Dari cerita itu, yang kamu butuhin sebenarnya cuma didengerin, divalidasi, dipahami. Tapi dia malah langsung ngasih solusi, bilang "yaudah jangan dipikirin", atau bikin kamu merasa perasaan kamu tuh berlebihan.
Terus kalau obrolannya udah mulai masuk ke hal-hal yang lebih dalam, kayak perasaan, kebutuhan dalam hubungan, atau konflik yang belum selesai, dia cenderung menghindar. Entah diam, ganti topik, atau bilang "ngapain sih dibahas terus".
Mungkin dia ngomong gitu bukan karena dia nggak peduli. Tapi dia nggak terbiasa menghadapi hal-hal yang berkaitan dengan perasaan ini. Mungkin dia sendiri aja juga nggak banyak mikirin soal emosinya sendiri. Dia nggak pernah ngomong kalau dia sedih, kecewa, takut, atau terluka.
Jadi ya gimana mau hadir buat perasaan orang lain kalau perasaannya sendiri aja nggak pernah dia sentuh?
How to lose a guy in 10 days (2026 edition)
•tell your friends about him
•respond fast
•care about him
•text him
•genuinely like him
Works like a charm, every time.
Date someone who is curious about you. Not someone who simply finds you attractive or entertaining, but someone who wants to know the person behind the surface. Someone who reads every message twice, remembers the stories you almost forgot to tell, and notices the little things no one else does. Someone who wants to know where your scars came from, what shaped you, what makes you laugh, and what keeps you awake at night. Attraction may draw someone in, but genuine interest is what makes them stay. Find someone who wants to learn every layer of who you are.
jujur suka sedih banget liat perempuan yang kehilangan sparksnya cuma gara-gara useless men. dan tau ngga yang paling bikin sedih lagi? ngeliatin mereka tersiksa tapi masih bertahan dan ngga mau walk away even though deep down in their hearts they knew the should've left.