My therapists told me that some people just don’t have the capacity to sit with and face the pain. Jangankan menghadapi, merasakan “kosong”nya aja sulit buat mereka. So they choose to avoid it and fill the gap with another person who is in the line, because it’s easier for them.
Peluk jauh untuk mereka yang sedang in a phase of trying to make peace with all the disappointment, without having to blame anyone for the pain they’re feeling. Itu memang salah satu tahap paling berat dalam life, but trust me and believe, you will get through this.
everytime someone grieves, the first thing i wish for them is a space wide enough to let that grief sit by their side. may you have a long conversation with it, long enough to remind you that the heart you use to love is the same heart that is trained to keep you alive.
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