Disney basically asked Phil Collins to write songs for a movie about a baby who loses his family and is raised by gorillas.
He responded with one of the greatest animated soundtracks ever made: TARZAN (1999).
When you hurt someone and maintain a relationship with that person, they may bring it up again. They may need more clarity. Even if you have apologized, they may bring it up. And when that happens, it is on YOU to be patient and have a discussion about it. If you hurt that person, it's not up to you to tell them when and how to heal. If you are truly sorry and care about them, you gotta deal with those uncomfortable feelings about how they're still hurting over something. These are the consequences of your actions.
Breakups in your 30s hit differently. It's not the same as heartbreak at 21. At 21, you cry, vent to friends, go out, distract yourself, and somehow you heal. Back then, life felt long, full of possibilities, what ifs, and( second chances). But in your late 20s or as you approach your 30s, it feels different. You are not only losing a person. You are losing plans, routines, and the version of yourself that was building a future with them.
disappointment is weird because yes i want to forgive you, whole heartedly... but my mind is struggling to comprehend why would you ever think it was ok to do me like that
βgo no contact and block his numberβ
βfocus on yourselfβ
βtime will heal itβ
but no one tells you what to do when you wake up at 2am, your chest hurts and your brain wonβt stop replaying him
Love isn't enough for me anymore. I need you to respect me. I need you to support me. I need you to reassure me. I need to know you won't give up on me. I need you to value me. I need you to be gentle with me. I need to feel safe with you sol can be the softest version of me.