Habeebah💙🌸

[ame˙⋆✮ @v3lvetbunni]

a cheating man is bad enough. you know what is worse? a man who pretends to be good when in reality he’s a pathological liar, lustful, a manipulator and plays the victim.

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

I don’t care who gets offended by this but some men don’t actually want a good woman. They want a convenient one, someone who gives everything and questions nothing.

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

i honestly believe there's nothing a proper conversation cannot solve.

[twinkle_✨🦋 @ayshaa_abdull]

Being a good woman in this generation is scary because the wrong man will change you completely.

[ً @artfuIchaos]

I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy. I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode. my nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood and now I’m choosing peace and stability.

[Proper Yoruba Babe 💫 @faahedah]

I fear losing my mum more than I fear my own death. Omo, all that glitters na my mama o. 🥹 Na she still be gold. ❤️

[Tori_ @Toribabieegirl]

Fun fact: I've cried more times as an adult than I did as a kid.

[H’s mom @aiishadahir]

Kun faya kun….

[Sara @piousdeenn]

Suddenly…

You get the job.
Allah invites you for ʿUmrah.
You get married.
Your debt is paid off.
Your dreams begin to unfold.

Because you read these 5 duas & Allah answered the dua, in sha Allah.

[Ustaz Awon Hoodlums @RealSamboFatiu]

Tomorrow is Thursday.

Fast if you are able to, if not earn reward by reminding others.

Remind, for indeed, the reminder benefits the believers (Q51:55).

Baarakallahu Feekum.

[👳🏾‍♂️Mufti Of Ilorin Online 👳🏾‍♂️ @Adamthallith]

In the last two weeks.

A man was arrested for harassing a girl on the street of Abuja just because the girl refused to “know him” better.

A 20yrs old girl took her own life after she was raped by a content creator who promised to help her monitize her page

A lecturer was filmed naked inside a bush when he was trying to get into inappropriate sexual activity with a female student.

There is a guy who’s been creating a silly content with an underage girl, saying she’s his wife and he’s grooming her, until he was threaten with course and he had to confess that they’re neighbours and it’s just content.

A male lecturer from Maryam Abacha University was beaten by a female student husband because this lecturer insisted on sleeping with her before he approves her project topic.

Mind you, all of this happened and made it to social media in the last 14 days and these are the only ones that made it to the internet, imagine many more that couldn’t make it to the internet?

You see, sometimes I understand the anger of some of these ladies to a reasonable extent, imagine living in constant fear of being raped, killed or harm just because you belong to a gender that is assumed and believed to be the weaker one.

May God keep protecting everyone out there.

[👳🏾‍♂️Mufti Of Ilorin Online 👳🏾‍♂️ @Adamthallith]

bro i just tire for some naija boys mehn, a man raped a virgin girl and the girl had to kill herself cos of shame and naija boys were posting the twerking video of the said girl to counter that she was not a virgin cos a virgin isn’t suppose to be twerking.

let even said she was not a virgin, what’s her virginity status had to do with her being raped?

ṣe oloribu l’ẹyin boys yii ni ?

[𝑰𝒅𝒓𝒊𝒔 𝑨. 𝑶𝒏𝒊 PhD @IdrisAOni1]

NB: This is written and posted with permission for readers to learn

Recently, two Muslim sisters shared deeply painful experiences with me. In one case, a woman endured nearly two decades of her husband's repeated infidelity, repeatedly treating infections she contracted after marital relations with him. Financial dependence and concern for her daughters kept her in the marriage despite the emotional and physical toll. Eventually, it became evident that her husband was deeply involved in an illicit relationship with another woman. He later claimed he intended to marry her as a second wife, but by then he had already transmitted HSV to his wife through his continued infidelity.

In another case, a young wife has repeatedly contracted sexually transmitted infections from her cheating husband, who also refuses to use protection despite the obvious medical risks. These are not merely marital disputes; they are matters of life, health, trust, and human dignity.

Islam does not permit a spouse to endanger the life or health of the other. One of the higher objectives (Maqāṣid) of the Sharīʿah is the preservation of life and lineage. A husband who knowingly exposes his wife to sexually transmitted infections through adultery commits a grave sin and an act of oppression. A wife in such circumstances has every right to protect herself from further harm. If there is a credible risk of infection because of proven infidelity, she is justified in refusing sexual relations until genuine repentance has occurred, appropriate medical evaluation and treatment have been completed, and the danger has been removed. This is not disobedience; it is self-preservation, and the Sharīʿah does not require a person to submit to preventable harm.

There are important lessons here for our sisters, and indeed for our entire community:

1. Strive for financial independence through lawful work, skills, or business. While a husband is obligated to provide maintenance, having your own source of income can protect your dignity and expand your choices in difficult times.

2. Build lawful savings and assets. Islam recognises a woman's independent financial ownership. Do not surrender that right out of misplaced sentiment.

3. Never normalise or excuse infidelity. Adultery destroys trust, families, and health. It should be confronted with wisdom, accountability, and sincere repentance, not silence.

4. Do not remain in a harmful marriage solely because of societal pressure or fear of raising children alone. Children are better served by a safe and dignified environment than by witnessing persistent abuse and betrayal.

5. Value your life and your health. People's opinions will not bear your pain, pay your medical bills, or answer before Allah on your behalf. Your life is an amānah (trust) from Allah and deserves protection.

This advice is not an invitation to hastily dissolve marriages. Islam encourages reconciliation where there is sincere repentance, justice, and reform. But reconciliation cannot be built on persistent deception, repeated infidelity, and the continued exposure of an innocent spouse to serious harm. Marriage is founded upon tranquillity, mercy, fidelity, and mutual protection, not exploitation and abuse.

[👳🏾‍♂️Mufti Of Ilorin Online 👳🏾‍♂️ @Adamthallith]

There is a sister by the name Aminah on Instagram and TikTok. Her handles are the_Aminah on Instagram and the_Aminah1 on TikTok.

She shares daily Islamic reminders, and I genuinely appreciate the calmness, wisdom, and kindness with which she delivers them. Her reminders are thoughtful, beneficial, and always conveyed with beautiful manners.

May Allah be pleased with her, reward her abundantly, accept every reminder she shares as an act of ṣadaqah jāriyah, and make them a witness in her favour on the Day of Accountability.

Āmīn.

I highly recommend her pages to anyone looking for beneficial Islamic reminders.

[THE REDOLENCE FASHION HOUSE ✂️ 🧵 📌 @Strivinglady97]

Come and buy from my new collections abeg 🙏

[Dee_Dee❤️ @hant_qudeee]

I know times are hard but if you're in a position to help someone today, please let it be this sister🥹🤲

We're just 145,000 away from completing her surgery fund.

Please check my pinned tweet…No amount is too small and every repost matter Ejoor🙏

[Dee_Dee❤️ @hant_qudeee]

Alhamdulillah🥺🤲…We're now at 490,000.

Just 210,000 left to complete this sister's surgery …Please keep sharing my pinned tweet. Every repost and donation brings us closer PLEASE 🙏

May Allah reward you all abundantly

[Dee_Dee❤️ @hant_qudeee]

Alhamdulillah, we've raised 82k and we still need 618k to go🥹Time isn't on our side. Her condition is serious and surgery can't wait for long.

If you can help in any way, please do. If you can't,kindly repost my pinned tweet it could reach the person Allah will use for her😭 🙏

[Habeebah💙🌸 @De_jo_ke]

@Lohlohofficial @itsOnly_Jessica See as Egbon Dey do
It’s been a while boss

[Habeebah💙🌸 @De_jo_ke]

@Lohlohofficial @itsOnly_Jessica Una no like me again now😒🌚