Menja Shom

Mother|Wife|Operations mgt|Data Analyst|PM|Trader|Sister|Daughter

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

I remain the best plug for household and kitchen items in Abuja.
Check out https://t.co/xz2haz8gvt on IG.
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[Grace(iya ibeji)✨🔥 @temmynkem7]

@mrmavens_ @Ilerioluwakiye_ Loud to that guy cos every of his podcast na rubbish and when such people in the house

Poor pikin and advice 5&6

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

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[Menja Shom @de_menja]

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[Menja Shom @de_menja]

@MSpeaksHisMind1 @dammiedammie35 E pain you 😃😃😃😃. No vex my brother

[Soft Life Baby @MsVotie]

I run a non profit aimed at fighting period poverty. Asides going on outreaches, I give out sanitary pads on a daily basis to women and young girls that GENUINELY can’t afford it.
If you know that you GENUINELY can’t afford sanitary pad every month, please you can come and pick up from my store in Wuye Abuja. If you know anyone who needs, direct them to me. If you support a neighbor or friend with pad every month, please reach out as well.
The pads are meant mostly for individuals and end users. What this means is that I can’t donate pads to your NGO or outreach, please kindly understand.
Thank you 🙏

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

@franksdonald Our Lady of Prompt Succor 🙏🏿

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

Your plug for household and kitchen essentials.
Location: Wuye, Abuja

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[Menja Shom @de_menja]

@papshine_t https://t.co/hZ8WhSVtvo

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

French quarter Festival, then Jazz Fest. NOLA is always alive 😁

[WorldFamous 🇳🇬🇧🇪 @33degr33]

Let me tell you something that hurts, but that sets you free. Yea I know, I'm a harbinger of bad teas, but if i don't spill it, who will?

Not everyone who is part of your story is in your corner.

There are people who have been with you since the beginning, but can't stand to see you grow. They applaud when you're small, but get uncomfortable when you start to rise. And this is confusing, because we believe that time together means loyalty, means friendship, but it doesn't.

There are people who know your story, but don't want to see your next chapter. They smile on the outside, but inside they're hoping you don't go too far. Not because they hate you, but because your growth confronts their own limitations.

 And psychology explains this well. It's hard to accept. It hurts to realize that not everyone who saw you start will celebrate when you arrive.

But maturing is understanding one simple thing. Presence is not support.

There are people close to you who are not with you.

And here's the important part. You don't need to fight. You don't need to confront anyone.

You don't need to make a scene. You just need to see it, become aware of it, and little by little, adjust who you let in. Not everyone deserves access to your process.

Not everyone needs to know your plans. Not everyone should be backstage in your life, because some people aren't rooting for you. They're just watching, and sometimes waiting for you to give up so they can celebrate privately.

So hold on to this. Value the people who genuinely celebrate your wins without competing, who are truly happy when you evolve, because those people are few and rare. 

As for the others, don't carry resentment. Carry awareness. Not everyone who is part of your story deserves to be part of your future.

If this makes sense - which I'm sure it does, share it, and someone out there might need it.

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

Tulip Bistro had the best Ceaser salad and Baby chicken 2015 to 2022. I wonder if they still do.

I miss Abuja

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

Checkout my shop, if you live in Abuja and just want all the good things, that make chores easy and gives your kitchen that sweet vibe
https://t.co/51jByH5wHy

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

@MsVotie "My Helper" you deserve everything good.... Congratulations 💜

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

@MsVotie ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

Dear Abuja/Lagos food vendors remove those sausages from that fried rice and return the liver.

Thank you.

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

Bluey is passing through my town....

Me: Yeahhhhh!!!!!
Checks tickets $225 for front row.

Me: I have internet and bluey is showing.
Close that page Menja 😤

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

@franksdonald Rose pink

[ilu of Sankara @purpleflamngo]

Does anybody have a house that is accessible to Marina that they’re not using? A lovely house in a seren environment? Please 🥹

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

Checkout my shop, if you live in Abuja and just want all the good things, that make chores easy and gives your kitchen that sweet vibe
https://t.co/51jByH5wHy

[Menja Shom @de_menja]

@MsVotie @Felz_Foods do you still have that super yaji?