I am in fact no relationship guru but I have had my years of being a stupid bitch in one and let me tell you… you will never land in a relationship where you are loved, respected and valued if you don’t first hold yourself accountable for all the shit you’ve allowed.
I ain’t never claimed to be innocent. 😭 I’ll tell you exactly where I was wrong. I’ll apologize when I mean it. I’ll own my attitude, my mouth, my decisions. What I WON’T do is let somebody paint me like I woke up and randomly chose violence. 😂 Every version of me somebody hates was created by an experience they conveniently leave out. I’m not proud of every reaction… but I know exactly what triggered it. That’s the difference.
My love story will not be a story of my man cheating and mistreating me and finally coming to his senses and proposing to me years later😭 Bro I be feeling so sorry hearing those stories from women.
I don’t want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster. Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder. And if that means she becomes everything I wasnt… GOOD!
I used to wonder how people could be jealous of me when I didn’t have nothing… then I realized it wasn’t the material things, it was just my spirit, my aura, the way that people love me that they were jealous of