Suffering will find you, whether you invite it or not. The difference is in what you choose to make of it. Some are broken by it, reduced to bitterness and ruin. Others step into it, endure it and leave with something rare in their hands. I have made my choice.
Sometimes I don’t even know what’s happening in my life. Life keeps teaching me lessons I never asked for, giving me experiences I never wished to have. Yes, they made me stronger but honestly, I never wanted to become this strong. I just wanted a simple, happy heart.
One thing I believe every woman should have is firmness. Be firm in your decisions. Be firm in your choices. Just be firm.
Let your word be your bond. If you say you will do something, make every effort to follow through and do it well. Always carry that sense of resolve.