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eight simple rules:
1. listen and hear
2. speak and mean
3. eat and taste
4. please care
5. give and ask for
6. passion and patience
7. live and love
8. laugh
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“You can be as mad as a mad dog at the way things went. You could swear, curse the fates, but when it comes to the end, you have to let go.” -The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, 2008
Be a good listener and insightful friend. Be frivolous and goofy when with a larger group, but be ponderous and intense when you’re on your own. -Becoming, Michelle Obama
“When things were bad, she gave us only a small amount of pity. When we’d done something great, we received just enough praise to know she was happy with us, but never so much that it became the reason WE DID WHAT WE DID.” -Becoming, Michelle Obama
Have a purpose to help people feel cared. Do our best to be useful, to be the rock for others, giving emotional and intelectual guidance and support, and always there to listen.
“My parents talked to us like we were adults. They didn’t lecture, but rather indulged every question we asked, no matter how juvenile.” -Becoming, Michelle Obama