I need a lot of people online to have enough self-awareness and self-preservation to know that YOU CAN TAP OUT OF DISCUSSIONS THAT PISS YOU OFF/UPSET YOU
YOU DO NOT NEED TO KEEP PARTICIPATING IN ONLINE FIGHTS, THEY WILL RUIN YOU MENTALLY & PSYCHOLOGICALLY
Real talk: Don't know who needs to hear this but there's absolutely nothing wrong about being enthusiastic about your interests/hobbies. Life's too short to not talk about things you enjoy in earnest. The world's too cruel for u to hold back the joy you could be putting into it.
When I see young women mocking us older women for being in fandom, it makes me feel sad for them. They have such deep rooted internalized misogyny. They can't fathom that they would be able to invest in their hobbies as an adult with responsibilities.
After a challenging few years that saw him lose some of those closest to him, Louis Tomlinson is determined to celebrate life through music, revisit his Rolling Stone UK cover shoot here https://t.co/QvZjxnbgRY
Nobody prepares you for how much quieter you become in your 30s. You stop needing to be seen, chosen, understood, or validated. You just want to feel rested, regulated, grounded, and at peace.