Deborah Thomas

God first 🙏🏾

The magic is in believing in yourself.
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[Deborah Thomas @debz_jt]

No, I'm not lucky; I'm blessed, yes!

[Deborah Thomas @debz_jt]

No matter the circumstance, my solution is always to take a trip.

[✰ @whoisfolaa]

Someone once told me, “The ending of a relationship is often hidden somewhere in the beginning.” I never forgot that. Sometimes, the signs are there from day one we just get too hopeful, attached, or in love to notice them.

[Deborah Thomas @debz_jt]

Have to keep thanking God for my mother yes. Extremely blessed just by that alone. And then He went ahead and gave me an amazing family and great friends. Blessed beyond measure.

[Deborah Thomas @debz_jt]

Whatever happened to those grand gesture apologies or sincere messages that properly apologize and state how you feel. Where is the effort.

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

someone said "if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior" and I couldn't agree more

[¥ @laylanaiim]

People who truly like themselves are strict about who gets access to them.

[THEBOSSGIRLLIFESTYLE🎀 @bosslifestyleee]

Normalize demoting friends back to associates. You cool, but you're not my friend.

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

Nobody talks about the personality shift in your 30s where you no longer want to be impressive, you just want to be rested, regulated, and completely unavailable to anything that drains you

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

someone said, "don't tell anyone your business unless it benefits you that they know" and the older i get, the more i realize how true this is

[SwiftieLee 🖤 @SwiftieLee1]

Girl to girl: There is no prize for being the woman who tolerated the most.

[Tomisin🧚🏼‍♀️🫧 @Tomformee]

let your final act of love be the silence that they always wanted. no more begging for their time, replies or effort. step back and let them feel the space where your love used to be. and you, heal.

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

Some of y'all think you'll make good partners because you won't cheat but don't realize you're inconsiderate, unappreciative, manipulative, insecure, lack empathy, have poor communication skills, harboring emotional trauma from your past

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.

[stressed @onlystresstoday]

no friendship or relationship should be draining you. remember that.

[ً @artfuIchaos]

true maturity is realising you don't have to defend your character to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.

[ً @artfuIchaos]

marrying someone very funny is on my list. I have to laugh, we have to laugh.

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

Once I've addressed the situation multiple times & it's no changed behavior, I stop caring. It's above me now. People treat you exactly how they feel about you & on top of that you heard me & seen how it affected me the first time. At some point in life you have to know your worth & stop letting people play with you like that.

[Rage🌸✨️ @softangrygirl]

Me when I discover a perfect series that came out 15 years ago with 8 seasons.

[☔ @Whotfismick]

when u wake up thinking it's few minutes before your alarm goes off but it's actually the middle of the night.

[Deborah Thomas @debz_jt]

My favourite pastime is deciding this is the last time someone or something, is going to make me feel this way—or this is the last time someone will hear from me—and doing just that.