Aku boleh cakap kalau benda ni going overboard, kau akan menyesal. Kalau kau lelaki yang setia, kau halau adik ipar kau tu duduk sendiri. Bodoh apa dah tahu ada abang ipar duduk sekali, pakai seksi seksi. Wife kau pun satu hal jugak duduk jadi enabler ke? Lama lama nanti bermadu dengan adik baru tahu.
Bagitahu wife kau yang kau tak selasa adik ipar pakai baju seksi, pakai baju ketat. Cakap yang kau tak suka dia duduk sini takut benda bukan bukan jadi nanti. Kalau wife kau pun enabler, kau direct cakap kalau jadi iparku maut, jangan menyesal. Unless kau galak skodeng adik ipar, tu pandai la korang tanggung sendiri.
Men need sex like women need reassurance. Same need, different mechanic. He goes a week untouched and starts acting unhinged; she goes a few days unacknowledged and starts detaching silently. Men fall apart without intimacy, women fall apart without consistency. No “gm,” no “home safe?”, no “I got you,” no “we good?”…and you expect softness out of that? Be so serious. Make her feel wanted and she’ll give her all; make her feel ignored and she’ll disappear like she was never there. Reassurance is her pre-game. Starve her emotionally and she’ll revoke your whole membership. Men want attention, peace, loyalty, touch… but can’t send ONE message? Boy, bffr. Same need expressed differently. he wants touch, she wants consistency.