Kaki Dee 🇰🇪

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Jesus is Lord 💯
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[𝙶𝚊𝚠𝚞𝚔𝚊 𝚔𝚊𝙼𝚐𝚎𝚐𝚎𝚍𝚕𝚊 @Somlimokazi]

Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about alignment, meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.

[Rita Sunshine @1RitaSunshine]

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[TUKO.co.ke | The Heartbeat of Kenya (@Tuko_co_ke) @Tuko_co_ke]

Missing person: Have you seen him?

6-year-old Ian Waindo, a Grade 1 pupil, went missing on Saturday, March 28, 2026.

The boy was last seen in the Chokaa area at around 6 p.m.

Anyone with information on his whereabouts can report the matter to the nearest police station or call [phone]/ [phone]/ [phone]

Kindly share this post widely so that the boy can be found and reunited with his family.

Photo: Ree (Original)

#tukonews #MissingPerson

[Kaki Dee 🇰🇪 @dee91kaki]

@noelitoflow Happy birthday

[Green Belt Movement @GreenBeltMovmnt]

Karura Forest is under threat! Replacing mature trees with hosting NYS barracks risks permanent ecological damage. Join us and Speak up in protecting the legacy of this 1,000-hectare lifeline. #SaveKaruraForest #TeamGBM

[Kaki Dee 🇰🇪 @dee91kaki]

@anxietymsgs Ngishutheni by Goon Flavour, Master KG & Eemoh

[Joshua Okayo @okayojoshua]

If it appears, just retweet.
We shall never forget!

#RutoMustGo

[Kaki Dee 🇰🇪 @dee91kaki]

@ItsMainaKageni What have you decided with us 🤣🤣🤣

[Nyakundi Report @NyakundiReport]

🚨 MISSING PERSON ALERT🚨

Name: Griffins Muriithi Mwiti
Age: 20
Last Seen: Mirema Road
Clothing: Navy blue T-shirt & black sweatpants

📞 If you have any information call: 0722630962

[Lammie_Art @Lammie_Art01]

I sat for hours to make this…

If the algorithm showed you my creative work, kindly share. 🙏

[Tife Chris @TifeChris]

If the Algorithm shows you my Art, kindly support by sharing. Thanks✨

[Kingpin of Kenya @ClintonObonyo]

Phone theft market pale Raila Road ukielekea mbagathi.Pale watu wanaoneshwa dust na wezi wako na pikipiki. retweet to create awareness

[Mukuru Community Justice Centre @mukuru_cjc]

🚨 MISSING CHILD – PLEASE HELP 🚨

Caleb was with his mother yesterday at church near AA of Kenya, close to Villa Police Station. He went outside to play and has not been seen since.
This family is in deep distress and needs our collective help. If you have any information no matter how small please report to the nearest police station or contact the family immediately. Please share widely. One share could help bring Caleb home safely.Let’s stand with this family until their child is found.
#MissingChild #BringCalebHome #EveryChildMatters

[Dora_theophilus @dora_theophilus]

I have spent the last 58 days searching for a way to get my sister the medical treatment she desperately needs. Please, we need your help to get her through a battle she never asked for. Any support, donations or even a retweet means the world to us.

Please help me save my sister.😭🤲
Help Marycynthia beat cancer!
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[✞ Sᴜɴᴅᴀʏ @Survivor_Uganda]

I am officially done mourning the life I thought I would have by now.

God’s timing, God’s will, God's way. 📍

[Will Knowland @beherleader]

Divorce wasn’t an option for them.
So they chose the modern alternative: a marriage where both people live separate lives under the same roof.

It didn’t look dramatic from the outside.

Good parents. Functional home. Shared faith. Shared financial vision.
No affairs. No “I hate you.” No public explosions.

Just the quiet decay of us.

The husband told me:

“We agree on the pillars—faith, kids, money.
But we can’t talk without it turning into a fight.
And we’re… different people. Different interests.”

Then he said the sentence that should scare every married couple:

“So I started thinking I’ll just live a separate life. Guys’ trips. My hobbies. She’ll do hers.”
That’s not a solution. That’s a slow-motion divorce with shared utilities.

Here’s what most couples misunderstand:

They think the marriage is breaking because of topics.
Parenting. In-laws. Sex. Schedules. Money. “Communication.”

But what shows up again and again is this:

They’re not fighting about the topic. They’re fighting about the fight.

“He said / she said.”
Tone. Wording. Intent.
Days of circular arguments where nobody feels heard and nothing gets resolved.

When a couple can’t repair, every conversation becomes a risk.
So both people start protecting themselves.

One gets defensive.
One gets critical.
One shuts down.
One chases harder.

And then both conclude the same lie:
“We’re just too different.”

No. Difference doesn’t kill marriages.
Drift kills marriages.

A marriage can survive different interests.
It can’t survive two people who stop turning toward each other.

And drift doesn’t announce itself.
It’s death by a thousand tiny decisions:

“Not worth bringing up.”
“I’ll deal with this alone.”
“I don’t want another argument.”
“I’ll just do my thing.”

This is how couples become roommates:

They keep the logistics.
They lose the friendship.
They keep the vows.
They lose the warmth.

Now here’s the part that will challenge men… and comfort women (if it’s real):

As the leader, the man has to go first.
Not by winning.
Not by lecturing.
Not by demanding respect.

By leading in forgiveness and repair.
Leadership in marriage is often just this: he absorbs the first blow to his pride and initiates peace.

He’s the first to say:
“I’m sorry. I was wrong. I see how that landed.”

He repairs even when it’s “not 100% his fault,” because leadership isn’t a courtroom standard. It’s a covenant standard.

And he learns the distinction most couples never learn:

Forgiveness is releasing the debt of vengeance.

Repair is rebuilding safety through changed behavior.

Trust is earned slowly through consistency.
You can forgive quickly.
You cannot shortcut repair.
And when he leads like that—calm, accountable, consistent—something shifts: conflict stops feeling like war and starts becoming feedback.

Now add one more factor that shows up constantly, often whispered and minimized:

Porn.

Porn rarely shows up as the problem.
It shows up as a leak.

A leak of presence.
A leak of honesty.
A leak of desire.
A leak of safety.

For many men, it sits in a shame cycle: stress → escape → secrecy → self-contempt → distance → more stress.

For many women, it lands as: “Am I safe? Am I chosen? Can I trust you with my heart?”

Even if intimacy still happens, porn trains a man’s nervous system to self-soothe without the marriage.

And then everyone wonders why the home feels brittle.

So what’s the actual fix?

Not “never argue again.” Healthy couples argue.
The goal is conflict with skill.

Conflict that stays respectful.
Conflict that gets resolved.
Conflict that produces closeness instead of scars.

Because conflict handled well becomes feedback.
Conflict handled badly becomes fracture.

And here’s the uncomfortable truth that saves marriages:

One person has to go first.

Stop asking, “Who started it?”
Start asking, “Who’s going to stop it?”

If you’re the husband reading this: your marriage can’t run on providing money and hoping time fixes drift. Drift always wins unless you lead on purpose.

If you’re the wife reading this: your desire for emotional safety, honest connection, and consistent pursuit isn’t “too much.” It’s sane. The marriage thrives when it’s protected—not treated as the leftover category after work and kids.

If your kids left home tomorrow… would you know how to be friends again?

If the answer scares you, good. Use that fear properly.

Start small, but start today:

- 10 minutes of calm connection daily (no problem-solving)
- one weekly “friendship” rhythm that’s simple and repeatable
- a conflict rule: slow down before you speed up
- a repair phrase: “I’m on your side—let’s restart.”
- and if porn is in the picture: remove secrecy, install real boundaries, get outside accountability

Marriage doesn’t die from “being different.”
It dies from drift + defensiveness + secrecy.

And it heals the opposite way:

intentional connection + humble ownership + consistent action.

[Missing Child Kenya Foundation @missingchild_ke]

MARY MAUREEN WANJIRU (15 YEARS) FEMALE #MISSINGCHILDKE

[Kaki Dee 🇰🇪 @dee91kaki]

@quesadaaa_ You and me both 🤞

[Missing Child Kenya Foundation @missingchild_ke]

BRAVIN ODONGO WEKESA (14 YEARS) MALE #MISSINGCHILDKE