Youâll record men who work in hair salons, men who are tailors, fashion designers, in the creative space, and post their videos online as clickbait, knowing full well that people will try to ridicule them.
Youâve been going to hair salons all your life. You know that a lot of the men who work there are effeminate. You know the same is true of some men in fashion and other creative industries. You know this! So why are you suddenly acting surprised?
There are millions of men who fit your definition of masculinity. Focus on them if you wish, but stop making a spectacle of those who don't.
Stop deliberately singling people out, turning them into content and exposing them to public ridicule simply because they donât fit your idea of what a man should be.
These people are simply working, earning a living and minding their business. Let them be! Donât make videos of them.
LEAVE PEOPLE ALONE!!! â¤ď¸
As someone who is kinda obsessed with crashes, that girl was one of the most composed pilots Iâve ever seen given their exact circumstance. People just sit behind their phones & chat nonsense.
Comparing random âMaydaysâ to literally falling out of the sky, I have audios of Delta 1141, Western Airlines 265, JAL 123 etc on my IG, the pilots could barely communicate, shrieking till impact.
AirFrance 2009 pilots barely kept their cool & gave each other conflicting commands that ended up literally crashing the plane.
Clowns piling on a girl who had more balls, skill-set & achieved more in her 20 years of living than they ever will.
One thing I would like to see more of is women being vocal about their contributions to the family. Not in a condescending or disrespectful way, but simply making sure their contributions are acknowledged. When you contribute to building a family, you or your husband should make it known.
This culture of protecting a husbandâs dignity by keeping a wifeâs contributions quiet is part of why people come online and act as though women contribute absolutely nothing to their families.
While he was putting most of his income into building a house, you were paying the childrenâs school fees, sending money to his family or yours, and keeping the household running. While he was saving up to buy a car, you were making sure the house was stocked with food. You were both building that family, just in different ways.
But because people only see the husbandâs visible investments, they conveniently ignore the wifeâs sacrifices. And when something happens to him, suddenly, everything is described as the product of his sweat, as though his wife was merely a spectator in the life they built together.
This is how society reduces womenâs value to childbearing while overlooking their financial and non-financial contributions. It is also why widows and widowers are often treated so differently.
Women need to stop allowing their contributions to become invisible in the name of protecting their husbandsâ image. A family is built by a team, and both peopleâs sacrifices deserve to be acknowledged
Here is the exact timeline leading up to Dr. Wisdom Oghenetegaâs tragic passing:
⢠Thursday, May 28: Tega collapses. He undergoes blood investigations within the facility and immediately requests sick leave. The request is denied.
⢠Monday, June 1: Still seeking clearance, he completes an ECG and Chest X-ray to finish the full list of requested medical investigations.
⢠Monday, June 8: Despite being visibly ill, he is forced to do a 24-hour call alongside a pregnant Medical Officer.
⢠Tuesday, June 9 (AM): He is heavily reprimanded by superiors for sleeping at 10 PM in the call room instead of staying awake until dawn. He openly reminds them again that he is sick.
⢠Tuesday, June 9 (PM): Exhausted and ill, he misses mandatory evening games.
⢠Wednesday, June 10: While still battling symptoms, the administration serves him a formal query for missing games.
⢠Thursday, June 18: Tega submits another formal letter requesting leave.
⢠Friday, June 26: After a three-week administrative delay from his initial request, his sick leave is finally approved, and he is allowed to go home.
⢠Saturday, June 27: He arrives in Calabar and immediately proceeds to Asi-Ukpo Memorial Hospital for further medical tests.
⢠Monday, June 29: Tega passes away.
The claim that Tega didn't take his health seriously is completely false. He did every single investigation they asked for. He followed every protocol.
The only thing he didn't do was rebel.
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I hate when people at work ask you what books you are reading for professional development. I am reading books to counteract the effects of being professionally developed. I am reading books that bring me back to being human.
I i was telling my wife the other day that I feel so bad for Gen zs and the generation after them.
I was at an event that had a lot of them, and it was just sad.
Bad Govt and bad economy have robbed them of having a vibrant social life.
They hardly buy drinks at the club, can't afford cars, and can't afford decent apartments, so they create their own little way of having fun in raves and the likes.
No money to afford drinks. That's why you see prevalent recreational drug use in that demographic
From Uni, I was able to properly plan and go clubbing and will have such an amazing time, i would fly from Benin to Lagos with 10k then and not pay it any thought.
When I started working, my first car was 700k, a 2006 EOD in 2012 then, and when I moved to my first apartment. Rent was 1m for a 2bed on the island, and 1hp ac was 60k.
I remember buying a ticket to Venice for 180k and changing 2000usd for 360k at southern sun that year.
I feel so bad for them, their youth taken away from them because bad govt after bad govt, devaluation after devaluation.
Men have the same rights no matter where they go in the world. A woman's rights depends on the country she lives in or the religion she follows.
Read again.
If you want to make serious money, understand that youâre competing with people who already have capital, networks, and leverage.
Youâre not just competing on skill. Youâre competing on resources.
Thatâs why trying to do everything alone is a disadvantage. You need strong relationships, solid partnerships, and people who can lock in, share knowledge, and move faster with you.
âI donât have friendsâ is not a flex.
âI donât like asking for helpâ is even worse.
Because the people youâre competing with are collaborating, pooling resources, and accelerating each other.
You donât win big alone.
Misandry is women venting. Misogyny has institutions, laws, traditions and festivals behind it.
Misandry is like old women gossiping at the back of the church. Misogyny is what happened in Ozoro today.
One is a reaction while other is a system.
You cannot tackle false rape accusers without first tackling rape. You must be loud in your condemnation of rape before you can begin to face false rape accusers.
But youâre a fool.
third video has shattered me.
it's always a man, it's always men. every time.
mindless, violent, sadistic people masquerading under culture or whatever the fuck they're on to perpetuate evil.
i'm filled with so much anger and shame.
look at what they're doing to women.