Dolapo

[Dolapo @dee_soetan]

While you pray to get a job, pray for it to be a 0% toxic environment.

Pray for bosses and colleagues who care and truly care about you while you’re in the organization and out of it.

[No filter Skin @NoFilterSkin]

I love that people started making lifestyle reels like this because so many people weren’t taught these things

[Olúwatósìn Olaseinde @tosinolaseinde]

I met a lady in her mid 50s and I can’t shake off the conversation we had. She subtly reminded me that there’s a timeframe to run and work as hard as you can and you shouldn’t miss that window. Take your highest earning and natural strength timeline seriously.

[Timi Dakolo @timidakolo]

That one big win that will cancel all the Struggles ..

[Ifeoma B. Nwobu @ifbnw]

I don’t enjoy interacting with people who make me anxious about replying late. The more I have to overextend myself apologizing for it (even if your feelings are totally valid), the less I want to engage, and the later my replies will become.

[Asanwa.sol @Chizitere_xyz]

We have a guy at my firm. Let’s call him David. David is a senior manager, always the first to crack a joke, buys the team lunch on Fridays, and dresses impeccably. A true "stand-up guy" who seems to have his entire life figured out.

But nobody knew that for the past 8 months, David has been going home to a completely empty 1-bedroom apartment, sleeping on a single mattress on the floor. His colleagues just assume his family relocated abroad. The truth? Family court stripped him of everything.
He spent 12 years breaking his back to build a beautiful home for his wife and two daughters. When the marriage crashed, the court ordered him out to "maintain stability for the kids." He left with just a suitcase. Now, he pays the rent for that big house, plus their school fees, while struggling to feed himself.

But the money isn't even the worst part. It’s the crippling silence. David went from waking up to his daughters jumping on his bed every morning, to having to negotiate with his ex for a 5-minute WhatsApp video call. He was legally demoted to an "every other weekend" uncle.
Men are carrying mountains of grief and hiding it behind office banter and hanging out with the boys. David sits at the lounge with the guys after work, laughing and buying drinks. But when he drives home, he sits in his parked car for an hour in the dark just to cry before facing his empty apartment.

Society has convinced us that a man's heartbreak over losing his family isn't valid. We expect them to lose their homes, their daily access to their kids, and their peace of mind, and just show up to work on Monday in a suit like nothing happened.
Check on your strong male friends. The system is breaking them in half, and they are bleeding out in absolute silence.

[Dolapo @dee_soetan]

Jesus, you never fail.

[Dolapo @dee_soetan]

@Gbaja_Adeoluwa My friend is a DADDY!

Congratulations once again🎊

[Adeoluwa Gbaja @Gbaja_Adeoluwa]

Life lately 😌

[Dolapo @dee_soetan]

@yay_tunes Me too.

And it’s both parties even.

[t. @thandoau]

i’m going to attend events, seminars, shows and festivals of things outside of my immediate interest because how will i ever know what’s out there if i don’t just throw myself in the deep end?

[Dolapo @dee_soetan]

@Dippzle Funny how i can sing the CU anthem.
PS: I didn’t attend CU

[EnriCJ @HenryOkpoliCJ]

Yesternight, I found myself thinking about that popular quote: “We all have the same 24 hours.”

And yes… the clock gives everyone 24 hours.

But life doesn’t give everyone the same weight to carry inside those 24 hours.

Some people wake up and their day already has a soft landing. There is support. There is structure. There is safety. There is stability. Even if they’re stressed, the foundation is still there. Their mind can afford to think long-term. They can plan. They can focus. They can build.

[yinkyisamazing @beyond_oyinkan]

I saw a guy in dirty clothes drinking sachet alcohol and dancing on top of a moving truck. I scornfully shook my head.
Then I paused, and wondered who stole my own joy.

[Dolapo @dee_soetan]

@sini_ziwe @MawandlaSD 53 other African countries and it’s Nigeria you remember. I see how obsessed you are.

I’ll take some time to pray for your healing Sini.

[Mr Ayee🔴🟢⚫️🪓🇿🇦🇿🇦 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦💯 @AyeeNdeM]

A person has died wena idiot!
Your questions are foolish!

My cousin was on a study permit in Australia and during her spare time she did retail work there.

What must a person do if they are hungry? Must they die instead of making a plan to survive!

Would you have preferred him to commit crime instead of earning an honest leaving?

Idiot!

[Dolapo @dee_soetan]

@Irojulaiyegba @masterwindu012 @tobyasky I was going to leave a good comment till I saw the latter part of the tweet.

They are so obsessed with Nigerians and their timelines are filled with hate.

I guess we’ll have to wait and find out in Heaven.

[Dolapo @dee_soetan]

@InnocentNkuna11 Yo! What point are you trying to make exactly?

Did you also read the part that stated her children were born in SA? which means she must have lived there for a good number of years (mind you the first son is 18).

Come down from your high horse man.

[blue @bluewmist]

Adopting a "do it right now" mentality has done wonders for my organization & discipline. Something on the floor? Grab it right now. Thinking about cooking later? Cook right now. Laundry finished? Put them up right now. Home from a trip? Unpack right then. It's the small things.

[Gracious Onuoha @grayshurz]

Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.

[Dr.Zoya Mirza, Ph. D. @ZoyaBloomz]

That’s why resentment feels sudden but never is. It’s accumulated silence. Each time you override your own discomfort to keep peace, you teach yourself that your needs are negotiable. The mind remembers, the body remembers, even when you pretend you don’t. Patience without boundaries isn’t love, it’s erosion. And eventually, what you refused to address directly comes back as anger, distance, or emotional shutdown. The bill always arrives.