i just heard someone on TikTok say “this is the first time in history women are dating men for their character. and that’s why no one is dating.” and she was right.
i think stressing over a man is pointless. the choices they make are completely out of your control & their behavior has nothing to do with you. all you can do is pray that God allows the right partner into your life & drag anyone who doesn't care for you properly out.
normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.
I just came to the realization that I should just do everything alone 😭 movie dates,trips,dinner etc. I be so fixated on wanting to do things with others I slow myself down and never end up doing things and wasting my time, energy & money.
If you’re dating someone and you can’t comfortably tell them 'I don’t have money for this right now' without feeling ashamed, you are in the wrong relationship. 🤷♀️
Unfortunately, yes I sure DO give up on people. You can’t continuously disappoint me, distract me, not pour into me & expect me to continue showing up for you. No can do.
I was born for romantic love, Sunday funday, quality time, lying on the chest of the person I love, spending time with my loved ones, little gestures, feeling deeply, all of it.