The mistake is assuming people value what you sacrifice. They value what your sacrifice produces for them. Effort has no moral claim in a competitive world unless it changes outcomes. Stop asking to be honored for being tired. Build something they cannot ignore.
The most powerful response to disrespect is not rage. Rage tells them they found the button. It is not a speech. Speeches tell them you still want approval. The most powerful response is a clean withdrawal. Less access. Less warmth. Less availability. No announcement. A new version of you they can no longer access.
A weak man uses morality to excuse his lack of strategy. He wants the world to reward his good intentions, clean heart, and honest effort. But reality is not your mother. It does not care that you meant well. It rewards positioning, leverage, timing, competence, and the ability to act without needing permission from your emotions.
@DiscretePriti It simply choosing a defined structure, over motivation. With structure consistency is synonymous. With motivation we give permanent residency to fleeting emotions. IMHO.
@DiscretePriti Greatest mistakes are made in the pursuit of feeling significant. We rushe to be seen instead of becoming someone worth seeing.
That is the fallacy of instant gratification, what we are seeing today. IMHO
@HarmeenSoch Harmeen, Social Media is a place where societal misfits come and seek brotherhood. So just enjoy this rollicking merry go rounds. Just bother about these dunces. C