Being liked by them, you can be used to great effect in their personal status seeking games. Distinct from they submit to your plainly communicated desires, an instinctual attainment of social stability. An unrequired requisite that yet can make it easier or less conscious.
The hierarchy is from the ability to regulate our narcissistic nature. The bond is from the desire held for the subordinate. The opprobrium is from preventing their best efforts to disgust you.