Please carry your struggles with a touch of dignity. Venting doesn't always help. People treat you differently when they know too much information about you.
I have such a deep love for anybody who shows up for me. People don’t have to take time out of their day or life to celebrate you, support you or be there for you… so when they chose to do so, it means a lot.
Detach, babygirl. He doesn’t like you. He likes that you’re pretty, available, and always there when he wants attention. Don’t confuse access with affection.
Most of us aren't going through a lot. We just need money. Like me right now, there's absolutely nothing wrong with me. I'm just financially inconvenienced. The moment money hits my account, I'll recover immediately.
Clubbing has to be the most overrated adult activity. You sacrifice your sleep and peace, spend ridiculous amounts on overpriced drinks, then waste the entire next day exhausted and hungover. What exactly is the appeal?
You cannot have a man and be asking for help in a black family. They immediately want to know what the fuck is the man you are fucking on doing to help you.
I have a deep respect for people's privacy. I can be very close to someone for years and still not know everything about them, and I never feel the need to ask. And It's not like I don't care. I believe that if someone hasn't chosen to share something, it isn't my place to ask!!