For the record. Kobe’s passing does not make me want to rekindle old relationships with people who did me wrong, just because life is short. You knew life was short and karma was real. And you still did it. It’s still FUCK YOU.
I’ve discovered that nobody knows how to hold me properly. Not a single soul. And in the moments I don’t know how to hold myself...the reminder is painful.
We are GROWN. It’s 2020. People really need to learn how to lean into conflict, work that thang out/come to a conclusion and keep it movin. Avoiding conflict and disagreements make it worse. And stop acting like people are pressed, angry etc when they are just being direct.