Defundsimping

I help men post break up / post divorce how to get back into dating with confidence

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

Men NEED experiences where the whole process was easy

She didn’t ask for a ride
You went for drinks
She came back to your spot enthusiastically

Once this happens 3-5 times it makes you laugh when girls want to give friction

[Murray Hill Guy @MurrayHillGuy1]

Just so you know, the chick you’re calling an uber for on a first date is paying for her own uber to go Chad’s place later that night

Absolutely never call a girl an uber… unless it’s to call her one home from your bedroom

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

Girls view sex with MOST men as an uneven exchange

Which is why they want to extract as much out of the situation so it feels even to them

[Diane Yap @RealDianeYap]

Men are trying to extract sex from women for as little as possible. They don't want to send cars, don't want to pay for a dinner date. They'll call you a whore or gold digger for having any standards at all.

Let them. At least a whore gets paid. Why do that job for free?

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

These types of women will make everything hard

Linking up
Delayed intimacy
Each date must be an experience 💰
And constant sneak dissing that she can do better

[Nandi 🤍💜🤍 @pallnandi]

Avoid women who think they’re better than you or believe they’re doing you a favor by being with you. You’ll never be enough in their eyes.

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

I disagree. Most men have no idea how to: pose their face, show sex appeal, show lifestyle, pick the best haircut for their face, have good style

As a full time coach for men, you can double or triple your match rate when you master these things

[Specter @DemonFramed]

If you’re not a Chad, don’t bother with dating apps.

Women don’t care about your job, your house, or your hobbies.

They care about three things: whether you’re jacked, how tall you are, and your genetic bone structure.

That’s it.

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

They also love the high it gives them

I much rather tell a girl I’m going to take her on a crazy vacation in Mexico

Than asking her goals and aspirations

[redrum @griffisu]

girls always fall for love bombing because they’re inherently narcissistic they genuinely think it’s reasonable for anyone and everyone to fall in love with them after a few hours

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

Men having a fascination / insecurity with black dick never seems to amaze me

[Nuclear Caudillo🇺🇸🇩🇴 @CaudilloNuclear]

There is no way to tell if a woman has slept with a black man or not.

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

Hot take: before you even get into a relationship you need to be able to be able to meet women and have sex quickly

If every girl you meet “has to get to know you more” your game isn’t right

[Murray Hill Guy @MurrayHillGuy1]

I refuse to believe the average life sexual body count is 7??

Everyone I know is at least 25-30 with most being 100+ (and my one Chad friend in the 500’s)

Either I’m only friends with only sex addicts… or that stat is complete BS tested by total incel losers?

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

I much rather be her FWB

Outside of sex, it’s very difficult to know if a girl likes you because she can have a great date with you and still ghost you

[Diane Yap @RealDianeYap]

Fantastic way to test a man you're considering dating.

Ask him whether he'd prefer to be the guy who had a great first date, or the FWB guy.

The answer will reveal whether he values women more for emotional connection or for her holes. Most men care more about the holes.

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

My complete dating app profile that gets me 150+ matches a month

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

Don’t wait for a chosing signal

Women are passive, not aggressive

Also, waiting for a woman to green light your approach is crazy

I don’t need her approval, I shoot when I wanna shoot

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

Think of your self like a NBA player

Lay ups ( dating apps) are easy

Walking up to the smoke show at the bar (3point shot) is tough but a much bigger reward

[Latina Casanova | Learn 2 Seduce 💋 @LatinaCasanova]

Cold approach is brutal but it's important to learn

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

“Women only want the top 20 percent of women on dating apps”

Most men don’t even TRY when it comes to taking better photos of themselves

Until you : get a good cut, good style, good location, good lighting on your face

You don’t know your true potential

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

Fun fact, 99% of women DONT use height filters

Height filters can only be accessed if you buy the app and most girls don’t buy hinge

[Murray Hill Guy @MurrayHillGuy1]

“I only want a guy 6 foot tall”

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

6 good photos
Hinge X
Good witty banter when you match

All you need to get 1-3 dates a week

[Murray Hill Guy @MurrayHillGuy1]

POV: you just saw the love of your life…

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

This is why you need to make plans with women quickly 👇🏽

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

When women explain confidence it’s

“I love a quiet confidence, one that speaks when he walks into a room”

But to do a cold approach while she’s at the gym, requires a:

“ I don’t GAF what she’s doing rn, nothing is more important than me talking to her”

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

For the most part, any form of friction is a rejection. So cut your loses and move the on

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

“Dating apps don’t work for men”
Most men don’t even try with their photos

“Approaching women doesn’t work”
Most men maybe talk to 1 girl every few months

Nothing “works” for men. The men that it “works” for just got good at it

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

Context: I made a video stating that I will leave a woman if she doesn’t sleep with me within my time frame

Now the blue hair gang is calling me a grapist?

Crazy how they will literally call you the worst thing they can when they cant control you from leaving them

[Defundsimping @defundsimping_]

Most men use “but what if I make her feel uncomfortable” as an excuse