Enigmatic Par'mach Kai

Trekkie. . . ♐. . . Smart-mouthed Sweetheart

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

Was going through some photos from a few years ago to remind myself of who I am and that I'm better than what I've allowed myself to accept.

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

Hilarious!

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

@DukeOfDrinkwell No way! I'm in Frederick now. I'm gonna make sure I don't go out at night.

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

Umbrella
Ella
Ella
'Ey

[𝗱𝗮𝗻𝗻𝘆🫧💚 @beyoncegarden]

describe the artist in your birth month without saying who they are😭

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

Ouch!

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

I used to buy those cheap sunglasses from the roadside all the time and always thought, "What's the point of buying expensive ones? I'm going to loose them anyway." Then one day, I gathered the courage and bought an expensive sunglasses. And guess what? I still have them. I've taken care of them ever since.
That's when I realized those cheap sunglasses weren't getting lost because they were cheap? They were getting lost because I didn't value them enough to care. It's hard to accept, but sometimes in someone else's story, you are that cheap pair of sunglasses.

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

@jiggyjayy2 Then they wonder why they lose access.

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

@smoke_nd_pearlz I love this!

[Caroline Renard @carolinerenard_]

France should be able to afford the AC with all that money they stole from Haiti.

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

@cheo_coker Congratulations!

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

@ThatEricAlper

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

The Truman Show

[ijn @godknowsdgj1]

Name it 🤔👇

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

@solomonmissouri I LOVE THAT MOVIE!

I had (maybe still do) that movie on VHS. I watched it regularly.

If it comes on TV, I'll stop what I'm doing and watch it.

Did I mention that I LOVE that movie?!

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

Very relatable

[kat @yslnadi]

too passionate for a situationship too avoidant for a relationship just miserable enough to yearn

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

@KevOnStage Same.

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

@cheo_coker YES!

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

This was something I learned the hard way. Man told me I was too generous.

I purchased his favorite beer and mats for the bathroom.

[Biri♛ @numeroun0_]

yes unfortunately an insecure man will punish you for being good to him 🥹

[Hunter Biden @HunterBiden]

Things the recovery industry will not tell you:

1. The drug worked. That is why people use it. Not weakness. Not moral failure.
A neurological event so complete and persuasive that any honest account of addiction has to start there.
The problem is not that the drug fails. The problem is that what it does is unrepeatable, and you will burn your entire life to the ground trying to get back to a place that no longer exists.

2. Shame is not guilt. Guilt says I did something bad. Shame says I am something bad. Guilt is appropriate. Shame is a cell with no windows. Most people use the words interchangeably. That mistake is lethal.

3. You cannot shame someone who has already named the thing you are holding over them. Say it first. Say it in plain light. The weapon drops.

4. Guilt can coexist with self-respect. Shame cannot. You can hold the damage and the dignity at the same time. I know because I live there.

5. Radical honesty does not give you back who you were. It hands you the clean slate of who you always wanted to be. The mask comes off. The cartoon other people drew of you stays on the page.

6. Nobody gets clean on a winning streak.

7. You have to be almost self-delusional in your forgiveness of yourself. (Go watch Chase Hughes)

8. The greatest sin was not the chaos. It was the absence. Being unavailable to the people who needed you.

9. Sustainable recovery starts with one thing: honesty with yourself. If you love an addict and want to help, that is the only door in.

10. I am only an expert on my recovery. Nobody is an expert on anyone else’s.

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

That depends on how many years ago I said it.

I've matured a tiny bit, so it depends.

[astrology bot @hourIyhoroscope]

sagittarius, do you still stand by what you've said?

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

I am sat.

Bring. It. On.

[Hunter Biden @HunterBiden]

@iamno1s2hold He is a recovering crack addict that has now found a new addiction- it’s apparently called shit posting.

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

@letshavefun1961 @callmeMEJE Thank you. I was wondering what it was called.

[Enigmatic Par'mach Kai @dei_las_gra]

@Platomasochist @RickeySmiley I didn't laugh until I read your tweet.