My male coworker complained that my bra straps were showing, he called it βdistractingβ and said the male equivalent would be a woman seeing a man walking around with his penis out. I just looked at him and asked if he genuinely understood what a bra is. A bra is underwear. Genitals are not. The actual equivalent would be a guy wearing his pants low enough that his boxers are showingβ¦.which plenty of men do without anyone acting like itβs obscene. The fact that some men canβt tell the difference between underwear and genitalia says everything. And somehow, theyβre still trusted to legislate womenβs reproductive rights.