@Vxebo_ There are legal ways to chase away illegal migrants.
South Africa have police and other law enforcement agencies that could have been tasked to do that legally, but what we see are south Africans hiding under the guise of chasing away illegal migrants to loot and kill foreigners
Salary and use the remaining to get what she wants for herself
Give her husband the support he need and let him know he'll pay back.
Give her husband the necessary support right now while letting him know that your next salary will be used to get the personal things you wanted.
Simply put, the woman is being inconsiderate and selfish.
Marriage is two people coming together to become one.
Her burden becomes his and vice versa.
Her husband has been caring for her without complaining, the least she could have done was:
Support her husband with part of her
💔My younger brother called me yesterday and said:
“Please don't be angry, but I need your advice”
I asked what happened.
He said his wife gave birth 3 weeks ago and they've been arguing ever since.
Apparently, during her pregnancy, she lost her job.
So for almost a year, my brother paid the rent, hospital bills, feeding, baby items, transportation, everything.
Last week, his wife received a call from a company she had interviewed with months ago.
They offered her a job and everyone was excited.
But problem started when she got her first salary.
My brother said he casually asked what she planned to do with it.
She replied:
“It's my money. I've suffered enough. I want to enjoy my salary for once”
He laughed and thought she was joking but she wasn’t.
A few days later, she bought a new phone, expensive wigs, clothes and booked a spa appointment.
Meanwhile, according to him, their rent expires in two months and the baby's hospital bills are still hanging.
He said he wasn't expecting her to hand over her entire salary.
But he felt hurt that after carrying the family alone for so long, she didn't even think of contributing anything voluntarily.
When he complained, she got angry and said:
“Just because you helped your family doesn't mean I owe you my salary”
Now both families have joined the matter.
The wife's family says she's entitled to enjoy the first salary she has earned after months of pregnancy and childbirth.
My brother's family says marriage is partnership, not a place where one person carries all the burden while the other spends freely.
They're both refusing to apologize and I’m confused here.
He asked me last night:
“Am I wrong for feeling hurt… or is she right to enjoy her first salary like this because I’m new in marriage. Is this how it is?💔”
I don’t even know what to tell him.
What would you do in his position?
It's funny how this image you portray as God is that of a white man with long hair and full beards but if a regular guy goes to church today with long hair and full beards, he is seen as a worldly person
God is not a white man with full beards, he is a spirit that no man has seen
@thrillz_neroG@Rivkah_B@reelquadry@henrypirfa It's funny how you're justifying the killings thinking you're being logical.
Let's even assume that early Christians killed to conquer, does that make it right, do you still see christians killing or justifying killings today.
By the way early missionaries spread through trade.
Good morning my people,
Am back from the wilderness.
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Na all landlord knack for my head before.
Good to be back again