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Am a lady, a mom and a friend..but mostly am a child of the Most High God

[Dells🇿🇦 @dells1264]

@CityPowerJhb Radiokop.....daily nightmare

[🇿🇦Zwidenya @zwidenyapT]

Today's is not Pastor's wife day, it's your mother's day. Your own mother.

Don't tell me of Spiritual mother ntoni ntoni, because you are not Spirit.

[Dells🇿🇦 @dells1264]

@CityPowerJhb Still off in Radiokop!!!

[Dells🇿🇦 @dells1264]

@CityPowerJhb An hour later still no update...

[Dells🇿🇦 @dells1264]

@CityPowerJhb @1Anon1Anon1Anon Can that Technician switch it on at De Ou Pad, as that is where the problem was a few days ago, when we went off

[Dells🇿🇦 @dells1264]

@CityPowerJhb How about Radiokop?

[Dells🇿🇦 @dells1264]

@BastardZuma @_Bongekile_ @VillageGuluva Is Frisco coffee though? 🤣🤣🤣

[Dells🇿🇦 @dells1264]

@_Bongekile_ @Maso_Mateta Haaini😂😂Ricoffy is not coffee, it is chicory🤣🤣🤣

[BI Phakathi @biphakathi]

Some friends bring bad luck to you. Be careful who you associate with.

[Dells🇿🇦 @dells1264]

@Khensi_20 Yes my firstborn and last born( both gals), 02 April. And they are 9rys apart.

[Dlangamandla @MzoloUnfiltered]

Whether people like it or not, a man sets the tone in a relationship. A woman responds to his energy...his consistency, his intentions, his presence. She reflects what he gives. When a man leads with clarity, love, and respect, he creates a space where a woman can feel safe, soft, and secure. When he leads with confusion, mixed signals, and inconsistency, it puts her in survival mode where guarded, uncertain, and emotionally drained.

[A 🇦🇪 @tutututuulip]

independent women DO submit to men. You just have to actually be a MAN.

[☈€ᗰ☡€↳ 🥀⭒ @ohremzel]

why is the pressure to be “the bigger person” always placed on the person who was wronged? 😭

[Freyy @Freyy_is]

an elderly man was once asked how he managed to stay married for over 50 years. his answer was unexpectedly blunt: "there were many mornings where I woke up, looked at my wife, and didn't feel a single spark of romance. i was tired, or she was irritable, or life was simply heavy."

when asked if that lack of "feeling" worried him, he shook his head.
​"i didn't marry a feeling," he explained. "i married a human being. On the days the feeling went missing, i simply worked harder to serve her. i made the coffee exactly how she liked it.

i listened to her stories even if I’d heard them a dozen times. i chose to act like a man in love until the feeling decided to show back up."

i learned the same lesson from my father and the men in my community : real love isn't something you find; it's something you build when you’d rather be doing something else.

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[N’wa Mucanyi 🫶🏾 @KhananiShingan1]

Woman are reciprocators. Not initiators. You lead, she follows. You put in effort, she returns it. You make her feel good, she mirrors it. That's the only
way it works.

[PHUTI SEMENYA®🇿🇦 ⚖️ @PhutiSemenya14]

You can't be watching Indians that speak IsiZulu while you have NQF level 7 and above.

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

I don’t care how INDEPENDENT or self sufficient she seems to be, treat her well. Buy her things. Take her out. Court her. PURSUE her. She’s only doing everything alone because she HAS to, not because she wants to.

[KABUGO @Kabugo_]

Envy rarely looks like hatred. it looks like excessive curiosity… random check-ins… “i was just asking.” surveillance disguised as friendship.