and to all who love them: love them! idc I’m happy about that! but I get to feel how I feel about someone who straight up told me they were withholding their attentiveness and thoughtfulness from me (when my mom got cancer mind you) bc of how their ex treated them
it is wild to me that even in my times most filled with self hatred I was saying things like “I need to be kind instead of fair” so you admit that it was fair for you to get snippy?? you admit that you aren’t being crazy and evil???