The main reason some of you are so desperate to know the identity of Alex Ekubo’s wife is so you can monitor her every move not because you care about her.
You want to know if she’s grieving “enough” by your standards. You want to keep tabs on what she posts, what she wears, where she goes, and who she’s seen with. Then, the moment she starts trying to live her life again, some of you will be the first to drag her and come up with the most bizarre takes imaginable.
These days, everything is content, everything is gist, and everyone feels entitled to an opinion about things that have absolutely nothing to do with them. Nothing is allowed to be personal anymore. Nothing is sacred.
Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is respect people’s boundaries.
I DONT LIKE when people try to make it seem like you the bad person in situations when it really be the other way around.. especially when you're a genuine person.. they won't ever speak on how they treated you or what caused you to draw away from them. They won't speak on all the things you tolerated yet remained SOLID through.. but feel free to believe whatever they tell you about me, just know it's two sides to every story.. & good people get tired of being good to unappreciative ppl.. it's draining
i like withdrawing access a lot. i won’t do gra gra with you, once you start acting like a mad person i’ll leave you and make sure you can’t access me ever again. no long talk
You really gotta put yourself on a certain pedestal. Like yes you’re better than that, you’re bigger than that, you can’t be associated with that, you can’t entertain that, etc. I AM actually too good for a lot of shit and I say that with confidence & assurance 💕