๐ I met a guy on Grindr who was exactly my type, but there was one problem: he was still a virgin, and he wanted his first relationship to lead to marriage. I told him honestly that I was not looking for anything that serious and suggested we stop talking before either of us got attached.
Out of disappointment, He called me selfish for walking away before giving him a chance. I told him I was being honest about what I wanted. But then he said something that made me question myself: 'You would rather lose someone who treats you right than risk changing your mind?'
Am I wrong for rejecting someone because our expectations for the future do not align, even though we genuinely like each other?