Keep your problems smaller than your life. A flat tire is a flat tire. A bad meeting is a bad meeting. A canceled flight is just an extra two hours. These things become catastrophes when you let them. But they stay manageable when you remember the depth of your real life- the people you love, the work you care about, the beautiful years still ahead. Zoom out. Fit your reaction to the size of the problem.
Pelik la orang Malaysia ni. BN dah banyak kali kantoi. Tukar kjaan pun sebab rasuah, yet you guys are still considering them to lead the nation. For what? Kaut more in the future? They failed as a government, and basically nonexistent as an opposition. Dah2 la.
that's why i always say to my friends yang if you chose date a sexual harasser, a racist, a misogynist i'm just going to believe that you're also the same SEBAB WHY TF WOULD YOU EXCUSE THAT?? WHY IS THAT NOT A DEALBREAKER??
Kat tempat kerja aku, ada staff laki letak tangan kat bahu staff perempuan (yang baru), next day terus kena buang.
So yeah let men feel the consequences of their action. Instill fear in them that sexual harassment is no joke. Dah lama sangat kita tolerate sikap ni.