l'evento canonico di entrare nel camerino di un negozio a provare qualcosa di carino ed uscirne con un disgusto profondo verso il proprio corpo e la voglia di piangere
“I don’t understand why women don’t just report it if it really happened.”
When I was 19, I reported mine. I had bruises. Hospital photos. Text messages of him apologizing the next morning. My friends drove me to the station because I could barely stop shaking. I thought evidence would make it simple. I thought truth would be enough.
Months later, I was the one on trial. His lawyer printed my Instagram photos and held them up in court. Asked why I wore crop tops. Asked why I drank that night. Asked why I didn’t scream louder. He replayed my police interview and pointed out every time I hesitated, every time I cried, every time my timeline wasn’t perfectly linear. “If it was traumatic,” he said, “why can’t she remember clearly?”
Sitting there while strangers debated my pain like it was a group project felt like being stripped again. My messages were projected on a screen. My body was described in detail. My character was picked apart like that was the real crime.
He walked out on bail. I walked out with panic attacks.
That’s why some women don’t report. Because even with bruises. Even with screenshots. Even when you do everything “right.” You still have to survive the assault twice, once in private, and once in public, just to maybe be believed.
He is absolutely a victim, and she should have been blacklisted from Hollywood as soon as she began preying on him. They met when she was directing a movie he was in. She said she was “impressed by his professionalism” during his audition, considering his age. AKA she pulled the bullshit “you’re so mature for your age” card and began dating him once the movie was finished. From the start, there has been a clear power imbalance.
At 18, he became a stepfather to her two kids, with one of them only being 6 years younger than him when he started dating their mother. He was 20 when they had their first child, and she was 43. She is all he knows. He was 18 and was starting out in acting, while she was an established director. If the genders were reversed, there would be much more backlash and media coverage of their relationship. She preyed on a barely legal teen.
People make jokes online, but she 100% groomed him, and he is a victim who probably doesn't even realize it. It's even more tragic when children are brought into the mix. If he left her now, it would affect their four children, who aren't aware of what their mom did and why it was wrong. He's been with her for the majority of his life now. At this point, I don't think he'll ever choose to leave, but I hope he at least knows that what happened to him was not normal or okay. I also hope he will protect his children so that they are not taken advantage of like he was.
KEEP TALKING KEEP SHARING
DO NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT EPSTEIN
DO NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT EPSTEIN
DO NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT EPSTEIN
DO NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT EPSTEIN
DO NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT EPSTEIN
DO NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT EPSTEIN
DO NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT EPSTEIN
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DO NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT THE EPSTEIN FILES.
DO NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT THE EPSTEIN FILES.
DO NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT THE EPSTEIN FILES.
DO NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT THE EPSTEIN FILES.
DO NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT THE EPSTEIN FILES.
DO NOT STOP TALKING ABOUT THE EPSTEIN FILES.
Israel abducted a baby, tortured him and interrogated his father at a checkpoint in Gaza.
Israeli soldiers tortured the child in front of his father, they burned the baby with cigarettes on his leg, pricked and inserted metal nails into his leg. 💔
Israeli soldiers torture a one-year-old child in Gaza, including burning his leg with a cigarette and inserting a nail into his leg, according to a report, to pressure his father to make confessions
https://t.co/v0be37LwpV
NOBODY knows a man better than the woman he’s in a relationship with. when i say NOBODY, i mean NOBODY. not his PARENTS, not his HOMIES, not his SIBLINGS. they see ONE SIDE of him... but his girl gets the RAW, UNFILTERED version. the BROKEN version. the LOVING version. the HATEFUL version. the UNSTABLE version