Ten lazy years can disappear the moment you lock in. Six months of discipline can erase a decade of drifting. Momentum is magic. It turns yesterday's failures into tomorrow's fuel.
This is why Korean feminists started the 4B movement.
“I will not give birth to a life that will discriminate against my gender. My own flesh and blood must not become a blade and turn against me. If the world born from my body oppresses me I will not let that world exist.”
El día que se enteren de la de mujeres latinoamericanas que hoy están atrapadas sin dinero, sin papeles y hasta sin identidad en situaciones de violencias en países de Europa occidental (como Alemania) porque se creyeron el cuento de la tradwife del güero que te vino a salvar.
Unrelated but related, as soon as I questioned why I was so nice to people and not nice to myself, I flipped it around and became my own best friend and somehow it made me confident..
How to be an emotionally safe person: Be curious. Encourage honesty and hard conversations instead of avoiding. Validate. Make others feel heard. Be nonjudgmental. Give space to be imperfect. Be consistent and dependable. Own when your actions caused hurt. Support without fixing.
Mutis de latam quisiera pedirles un favor y es que me ayuden a difundir que ISRAEL esta invadiendo poco a poco mi país, esta en los estados de chihuahua, chiapas y aguas calientes, nos quieren PRIVATIZAR EL AGUA, necesitamos que esto se haga viral, LATAM TAMBIEN ESTA EN PELIGRO
You can also see this manifested in different tropes in media, the men are allowed to be ugly, but the women must always be beautiful
Straight men love the idea that the male body is inherently ugly bc that means they don’t have to put in any effort or face pressure to be hot
It’s one of the most important yet difficult stages to be in because you know you have to change. You’re actively trying to break old patterns but since you’ve resorted to comfort more times than not, it becomes excruciatingly hard to fight what you’ve deemed as your baseline.
If an actual woman had behaved like this while in a position of authority over underage girls it would have been front page news on every paper. Men like this revel in the fact that people of influence are more frightened of looking illiiberal than of endangering schoolgirls.