my only want for myself in 2026 is not to waste away. years are going by too quickly, and now that i’m an adult it’s terrifyingly easy to slip into stagnation and do nothing for long stretches of time. comfort is so dangerous; it steals years before you even realise they’re gone.
fuuuuck i just realized that the future idealized version of myself cant exist without current me being the catalyst for change and doing hard things. has anybody heard about this
This is how I feel the first time I meet someone’s parents or step into their home, like this is getting deeper and shouldn’t be taken lightly. You’re literally entering someone else’s world!!!
No, women want to be cared for the same way they care for their spouse & they want their men to shoulder the mental load with them. An equal partnership does not have authority involved. We want a functional adult, not another child handed to us by his mom.
Stop speaking for us.