im not interested in complicated relationships… with friends, family or lovers. I’m not interested in constantly explaining what I meant. I’m not interested in making sure we’re on good terms bc you’re acting weird. I’m not interested in shrinking myself to make us equal..
I immediately go silent when something upsets me. it's a coping mechanism i have developed over time. instead of expressing my anger or frustration, i simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private. i prefer handling my problems on my own
Delete, unfollow, unfriend, block, erase, and disconnect from anyone and anything that robs you of your peace, love, and happiness. Not just on social media, but in real life too. You don't need to be around people who don't see and appreciate your value.
flirting is cheating. Linking up & hiding it from ur s/o is cheating. Messaging others behind your s/o back is cheating. Once you start deleting shit or putting stuff on DND its still cheating. Moral of the story it don’t got to be physical.
Healing makes you realize some people don't deserve to be around you, no matter how much you love them. Unconditional love doesn't mean unconditional tolerance of abuse, disrespect, or bullshit - it's not unconditional boundaries.
If anyone ever says they have beef with me, I can promise that beef is one sided. I don’t have time be worried about anyone or their feelings about me. Or hold on to a situation that brings any negative energy. I don’t give negative energy, so don’t bring it to me.