People who aren’t self aware scare me. Because a lot of people really don't realize they're haters, energy drainers, personality duplicators, monitoring spirits, fans, envious, and insecurity projectors. They really think the way they move is normal but when your discernment is sharp, you see it all.
A LOT of MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES disappear when bills are paid, rent is secure, and the fridge is full. Peace is expensive. And pretending money doesn't affect mental health is privilege.
I'm not toxic. I'm reactive. There's a person somewhere calling me difficult, and they're leaving out the part where they pushed every boundary I set, ignored every signal I gave, and then acted shocked when I finally stopped being gentle about it.