These nggas be addicted to chaos…they want a btch that go crazy, stalk, question everything, and fight for them… baby I go silent…you won’t get no paragraphs, no long talks, no emotional speeches… you just look up and I’m gone
I know this is gonna piss so many people off but When you put pressure on a weak man, pressure to communicate, to lead, to commit, to grow. He doesn't rise; he downgrades. He doesn't step up; he steps out. And more often he runs straight into the arms of a woman who demands less, expects less, and challenges nothing. He'll say you're too much, when really you were just too real. Too honest. Too in tune with what you want and need. He'll label your standards as "pressure" because he was never built to handle a woman who knows her worth. So Ladies if a man says "You're too much for him"...HE IS DAMN RIGHT, let him find less, don't shrink yourself for a low effort MAN!
PLEASE romanticize your life, take pretty pictures, feel like the main character, light up a candle, read books, go for a walk, dance to your favorite music, buy yourself presents, do whatever you want, be happy. this is your life, don't let anyone take it from you.
Firstborn daughters may have a mean/tough demeanor; however, this is usually only a defensive mechanism because they've had to be strong for a long time. When you get to know them, you realise that they are the softest, kindest, and most loving people you will ever meet.
before you marry someone you need to see them in all four seasons!! when they're happy, maď, stable, broke, when they've been hurt etc. sometimes we wonder why people change on us and its not really changes sometimes you just haven't seen people at their worst.
Nobody prepares you for the amount of pain and grief you experience when you have to forgive yourself for believing someone was actually a genuine person. The hardest part isn't just their betrayal.
It's the shame you carry for ignoring your instincts.