I think one of the most important qualities you need in a partner, is a partner who is considerate. Someone who can look at things from your point of view, who considers how you're feeling when things are rough, someone who creates a space for you to feel safe and vice versa.
Think about it. When your pet walks in from another room just to find you, that means they were somewhere else for a moment… and decided to come see you.
In their own simple way, their little brain thought about you. They wondered where you were, what you were doing, and they came looking for you.
They didn’t need anything. They just wanted to be near you.
That’s love in its purest form. Quiet, loyal, and completely unconditional.
I value consideration a lot. Because, If you really love someone, you consider them. You think before you speak, and you move with an awareness of how your actions affect their peace. You care about what makes them feel safe, not just what makes you feel good. If you truly love them, you think about how your actions will affect them
One day you're begging a man for the bare minimum, then suddenly you're being spoiled by another man who wants nothing more than to love you, care for you, respect you, adore your every breath, protect you, and make you feel safe, desired, and at peace.
YALL THIS GIRL SAID, “It’s not gonna hurt me seeing you with someone else bc I already know how you are. but it’s gonnna hurt you to see me with someone else bc you already know how I am gonna love them” & I NEED EVERYONE TO WRITE THAT DOWN
i saw a TikTok about a girl saying how she doesn't stay mad for long because either she's going to figure it out, or there's nothing that can be done about it. and as simple as that sounds is as simple as it is really
marry a man who's a provider. that doesn't necessarily mean that he has alot of money. It means he knows his responsibilities. he'll make mountains move just so your needs are met. a responsible man is better than a rich man who doesn't value you.