@Joe_brendan_ The real problem is not polygamy but the lack of access to basic, quality education and proper upbringing. When children grow up without literacy, skills, or exposure to broader opportunities, they become vulnerable to manipulation.
@TheRuqayyah It is compulsory 4 every Nigerian graduate until d law is actually changed. We all saw what happened with Kemi Adeosun, so don't joke with it. Instead, you can work ur posting toward a calmer state and use d service to relax a bit, learn a skill, & plan your next steps.
@Fancyfoodmart Avoiding medical checks in the face of pregnancy delays is a red flag. Medical evaluation not spiritual detours must come first. If his wife refuses that path, it raises serious compatibility concerns. A basic sperm analysis is the logical starting point.
@Realoilsheikh@theboyisgreat The name Abubakar (nickname of Islam's first Caliph), is adapted into Yoruba as Bakare, just to let you. In situation like this it is better to deal with issue raised which you equally treated well.
@MoyinftDeborah You're right. I've seen someone disowned for converting to Islam in Yoruba land too. When families are one-sided, the outcome is the same, rejection, regardless of the faith.