I love Female Lead Relationships, but not the Twitter kind…
My submission:
-> sense of belonging
-> trust
-> devotion
Her:
-> supportive
-> kindness
-> leadership
I don’t want to be a loser. I want to encourage and help taking me to my limit. Service sub. Monogamy! 🙂
Apparently there’s actual research suggesting BDSM can produce altered states similar to flow state. In one study, bottoming was associated with a state consistent with temporarily reduced executive processing, which honestly makes “subspace” make a lot more sense. Sometimes submission really can feel like finally getting out of your own head.