Devlin Kuzma

Canadian Gamer

[Devlin Kuzma @DevlinKuzma]

@neevin @Primly_EN Valid, just trying to make a point about how most heterosexual people to some extent sexualize the opposite gender. I also feel like most women wouldn't get rid of possessions just because it made their man feel insecure.

[Devlin Kuzma @DevlinKuzma]

@ExistentialEnso So what kind of man do you want to be your dominant? Because I get the feeling that the men you want to dominate you, are going extinct

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@UkrainianAna Huh? It's women who claim that role-playing is now cheating. Or will you let your man flirt with an Ai chat bot? Haha, women have this strange thing with fantasies where they're okay as long as you only fantasize about her and nobody else.

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@UkrainianAna Let me ask a serious question on this topic, Anastasiya. May I call you Ana?

My question is, what kind of traits are you attracted to in men? If you are lesbian then dont be mad, I'm not being judgemental.

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@emkenobi Then maybe we should stop valuing men based on their sexual history.

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@neevin @Primly_EN Sooo... oit of curiosity, how would you feel if a man asked you to get rid of any dildos you have, because "I just don't find it attractive that you're using depictions of another man's cock to get yourself off."

Women do have sexualized male merch, dildo is a dick.

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@neevin I have a sexualized figure for you.

To answer your question, I dont really like oversexualized stuff. I find it quite embarassing. Even seeing it in anime, it's very frustrating. I enjoy the way anime tells stories, but it's like a Michael Bay film, you just ignore the dumb shit

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@slysmalldog I mean, first of all, that post was made by a woman, and second of all, women have drained away everything "feminine" so sexuality is the only thing left for "femininity"

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@Toolslayer74 @NotReallyStacy I'm not white knighting. I was just confused because I dont have the context that you two know are friends.

I've seen a lot of crazies on X, and I high-key assumed you were just some crazy dude.

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@Toolslayer74 @NotReallyStacy Okay? This still feels random as heck.

[Devlin Kuzma @DevlinKuzma]

@Toolslayer74 @NotReallyStacy What? @NotReallyStacy am I the only one confused here?

[Devlin Kuzma @DevlinKuzma]

@NotReallyStacy Fair, I wasn't basing that off your sexual history, but rather based on how you said you felt, which reminds me of what I hear a lot from other people on the asexual spectrum. A feeling of being sexually or romantically different from everyone else.

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@NotReallyStacy @Outlaw3375 One of the most vivid incidents for me, was when I entered 5th or 6th grade, we finally started having letter grades, A, B, C, F, and so my mom decided I should be rewarded for good grades, promised $100 per A. My step-dad always pissed when I came home with nearly straight As.

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@NotReallyStacy @Outlaw3375 I don't think anyone is like normal people. Normalcy is an illusion that is just based on societal expectations and stereotypical averages.

Im glad you had one good parent. For me, Dad wasn't present, Mom was neglectful at best, and step-Dad had severe anger issues.

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@NotReallyStacy @Outlaw3375 That happens sometimes lol I'm just grasping at straws since you seem to have an unhealthy relationship with trust.

Then, I guess the questions I should be asking, are: Why do you let these two guys have such influence over your life? Do you believe they represent all men? Why?

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@NotReallyStacy Cool, just wondering cause from the way you put it, you feel differently from how most people view attraction and love, and in my experience that's quite common for people on the asexual spectrum.

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@NotReallyStacy @Outlaw3375 Good, you should never be the only one showing up. Trusting someone doesn't mean lowering your standards or allowing them to walk over you.

Trust should never be suspicious, but it should also never be blind.

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@NotReallyStacy @Outlaw3375 This can lead to a shitty cycle of trust, where you dont trust anyone, someone convinces you to trust, and then you begin trusting them to an unhealthy degree because you desperately want to trust. Then when they break that trust, the cycle restarts with you scared to trust.

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@NotReallyStacy @Outlaw3375 Two men in seven years... that is not a reliable sample group to draw any conclusions from. I think you suffer like I do, where you instinctively want to trust others, possibly because you couldn't trust your parents growing up, but you are also scared.

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@NotReallyStacy I know you didn't make the photo, but by reposting it you show a level of agreement with it.

"There is ALWAYS have one"

Also, I fully agree, my comment was sarcastic and intended to point out that this is a generalization/stereotype.

Have you heard of demisexuality?