˚𝑴𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒃𝒚𝒅𝒐𝒍𝒍🦇˚

NEW MAIN ACCOUNT | 22| Black Woman| D/s | Bdsm| Learning Growing Reflections Thoughts | owned property of @GentleDominion ⛓️ Devoted to Him🌹 |@devoteddoll3_

[˚𝑴𝒊𝒔𝒔𝒃𝒂𝒃𝒚𝒅𝒐𝒍𝒍🦇˚ @DevotedDoll2_]

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(original deactivated)

Early 20's |Black Woman| petite🧍🏾‍♀️
Sharing thoughts/reflections

D/s |BDSM| & other interests
service & obedience oriented
feminine devotion|Not "traditional"
His loyal submissive 🌹⛓️🧎🏽‍♀️

my little corner🧸: @devoteddoll3_

[˚˖𓍢ִ໋🫧₊˚ʚ 🎀 ₊˚ @angelmiuu]

the way hyperfeminine black women are being under attack right now is insane. it’s currently a trend and people are going to extreme measures to nitpick and turn nothing into something, it’s literally all so disgusting and performative.

[maneesha @ManeeshaSem]

your soulmate will always be yourself first and foremost even when you’re in the most delicious, passionate, heavenly relationship with another.

[Mark Manson @Markmanson]

A healthy relationship should periodically make you a little uncomfortable. The conversations that matter are uncomfortable. The vulnerability required for intimacy is uncomfortable. Finding compromise and forgiveness is uncomfortable.

A comfortable relationship is likely an empty one.

[Whemïmor @hy_wemmy]

Remember: it is possible to be a multifaceted woman. Read books + twerk. Be spiritual + a frēãk. You don’t have to choose between your sexual/intellectual/emotional/spiritual side. Just combine them all into one powerful expression and stay balanced.

[💋SlutInLingerie💋 @SlutInLingerie]

Hey so if you are hiding behind being a dom/alpha so you can treat women like shit maybe don't be in a relationship 🤷‍♀️

[Humbled Females ❤️ @HumbledFemales]

Men: Being heartless, callous, mean-spirited, manipulative, arrogant, and cold is not some sort of cheat code to a female’s heart or skirt. Stop buying into this psychopathic PUA nonsense, please.

[Laura Grant @thelauragrant]

Men lead with actions, not words. The safety that a man creates for his woman is not through words alone. It's through the consistent actions he takes to demonstrate how invested he is in sharing and building a beautiful life with her.

[Dom Sub Living @Domsubliving]

Stop worrying about being a 'perfect' Dom or sub. What matters most is real connection, not flawless obedience or perfect rituals.

[Female Thoughts @realthoughtsfem]

If he's not confident, I won't feel safe around him.

If I don't feel safe, I won't trust him.

[FreeMyself2023 @FreeMyself2023]

A relationship expert said that most women want a man who is dominant but not controlling

A man who-

-Makes decisions
- Isn’t needy
- Makes their mind up without relying on her
- Stands up & makes her feel wanted not needed

Thought ladies ?

[Dom Sub Living @Domsubliving]

Total Power Exchange isn't about control for control's sake. It's built on mutual trust, consent, and constant communication. It's empowering for both Doms and subs, fostering growth by setting clear roles and boundaries. Remember, clarity and intentionality are key to success.

[Submissive Guide @subguide]

A riding crop and a blindfold doesn't make it BDSM. There is a big difference between being kinky and being in the scene. It's not a sexual thing to me, it's a very spiritual thing.

~ DominaBlue

[Will Hartley @WillHartley1980]

I think a lot of beginner kink education starts in the wrong place.

People rush straight into
“what are your hard and soft limits?”
Which matters, obviously…

But before that, you need to know:
What happens to you under emotional pressure?
👉🏻Do you freeze or fawn?
👉🏻Can you tolerate saying “stop” to someone you desire or want to please?
👉🏻Do you confuse being chosen with being safe?
👉🏻Can you identify discomfort early, or only after overwhelm?
👉🏻Do you abandon your own needs to maintain connection? *This isn’t a flex and no Dom should expect this of you. It isn’t just dangerous for the sub, it makes the whole scene potentially dangerous*
👉🏻Can you disappoint somebody without panicking?
👉🏻What does your nervous system do when someone becomes dominant, charismatic, validating or sexually intense?

Because somebody can know
“I want nipple clamps and the horizontal tango in latex”

…and still have absolutely no idea
✋🏻whether they can hold boundaries once emotionally attached
✋🏻whether they collapse under praise/pressure
✋🏻whether they use submission to outsource identity
✋🏻whether they mistake adrenaline for trust
✋🏻whether they’re actually seeking intimacy, validation, escape, catharsis or self-erasure

That’s the foundation-before-dynamics conversation.

Self-awareness is the safety mechanism.

[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

A ‘fawning’ kink might LOOK like being submissive

But the healthiest ways of being submissive REQUIRE self-embodiment [ie knowing & feeling one’s self]

and expressing that self clearly;
with grace & respect from the core

[Submissive Guide @subguide]

#KinkTip - Mistakes don’t make you a bad submissive. They make you a learning submissive.
Give yourself grace.
#subguide

[Submissive Guide @subguide]

I want to do with you
What spring does
With the cherry trees. -- Pablo Neruda

[mina ♡ @princessedolll]

Very tired of this ongoing trend of shaming for wanting to be cute and hyperfeminine like no we’re not trying to appeal to criminals wtf

[Mofiyinfoluwa Odubanke. @__mofiyinfoluwa]

unashamed yearning >>>>>

[k ✰ @D1GITALPRINCESS]

i hate the demonization of hyperfeminine women :(

[🏹 @meaghanonmymind]

I love a man that wants me all to his self because I get it.