Amanda 🩷✨

Relational dynamics, therapeutic pleasure work, intimacy, faith, sacred sensation play, intuitive touch, kinesiology & energy work 🌺 “Therapy that feels good…”

[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

Beautiful idea!! It can be fun to layer sensation at the *same location*
If you like layering sensation, some further options are:
• sliding a silk piece + light kisses or fingernail traces on the newly cooled & awakened skin.
• a soft flogger + light scratches on the reddened areas
• careful booby spanks + light hands ‘air touching’ over them after

[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

Beautiful idea!! It can be fun to layer sensation at the *same location*
If you like layering sensation, some further options are:
• sliding a silk piece + light kisses or fingernail traces on the newly cooled & awakened skin.
• a soft flogger + light scratches on the reddened areas
• careful booby spanks + light hands ‘air touching’ over them after

[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

{Intimacy Healing - breasts}

A latched kiss to the nipple may be too much and cause sensation ‘shut-down’ if is a history of unsafety or low pleasure.

It can help to awaken, tease & build sexual tension …& pauses… with an area so it starts to seek more stimulation.

Summary:
Awakening beautifully + pull backs & pausing can help heal the *pleasure response* in an area.

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[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

If we're going to make a biblical argument, we first need to clear up a common misconception: the idea that "divorce is only permitted for adultery."

First, Jesus does not use the word "adultery" in Matthew 19. Most English translations render the exception as "sexual immorality" (Greek: porneia), which is a much broader category than adultery.

For a first-century Jewish audience, sexual immorality would have immediately brought to mind the prohibited sexual unions listed in Leviticus 18. Many of those relationships were unlawful from the outset. Interestingly, that list includes things such as taking two sisters as rival wives. ‘Sexual immorality’ does not function as a simple synonym for adultery.

Note that King Solomon had hundreds of wives and concubines; had sex parties of some description; gave his wives to ‘keepers’ to ensure their sexual needs were provided for as per the law; YET he did not commit sexual immorality with his Hebrew women. (His downfall was marrying foreign women who worshipped other gods).

So adultery isn’t as simple as ‘sex outside of one man + one wife’.

In another shocking twist to the modern reader, it was not an act of adultery when a married man had sex with an unmarried woman. It generally meant immediate marriage provisions or payment (prostitution) but it wasn’t adultery for him to do that. The man wasn’t breaking his covenant obligations (at that time).

These days the covenant agreements are spelled out a little differently.

A core question is: what are the promises (covenant agreements) being made in modern marriage and are they truly 1. Aligned with the full suite of what is sexually moral?, and, 2. Are they reasonable? Or creating a burden beyond what God actually wants for His children?

Keep in mind that Jesus’ aim is always to empower people to live at a higher standard. The question isn’t merely ‘what can I get away with legally?’ but “Can I invite God into this still?” and “Am I honoring God in this —from my soul—even if others think & feel very differently?”

[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

@elizaego @kbillionsbtc All these orgasms are from direct stimulation to different parts of the clitoris!

Thank you @elizaego for sharing this information! 🩷

[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

… I lift this heavy feeling in my torso ‘up’… breathe with it there… and feel holy sweetness start to rush in & meet me there.

💛🩷💛

[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

Feelings of love-loss & grief have a hidden side to them
➡️ Open-hearted sunshiny Love + Appreciation for who they are/were to me.

~

I said ‘goodbye’ to a long-term contact the other day.
Just now I was feeling the loss… but I know this feeling.
This feeling is LOVE upside-down!

~

Recall: Do I EVER hold ‘regret’ for an opportunity to spend time with anyone at this level of trust & engagement?
No!
If I am true to ‘the call’ as best I can & ‘sense for The Good’ in it… it’s always a gift to my life.

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[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

Intimacy healing involves working WITH the feedback responses of the nervous system

NEVER overloading it into back into shut down… instead, working with it rightly,
into GREATER SPACIOUSNESS, FLOW & FREEDOM!!

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[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

This principle of pleasure + pull back + pauses can apply to the *whole person — as a personality* or to a ZONE of the body

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[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

@forririreal 🥰💜

[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

People can train themselves into unsatisfying sexual fantasies

Often simply by what they watch or read

Rather than sensing into their own true needs and desires

Example:

Instead of imagining typical quick sex or replaying porn in your mind… you may have a better & more wholesome experience by imagining loving hands warmly holding or caressing your chest and neck. 🩷

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[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

@forririreal You have a gift of adding a right insight! …with your perceptive way of considering things.

[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

Several misunderstandings here.

1. Solomon WAS focused on growing his kingdom, not just his harem. He was praised for his wisdom far & wide & through history. Jesus references Solomon in regard to himself. (See pics)

2. He created a situation for his women that was not a typical harem. Authors like @LeviShayWrites point to a radical female freedom within Solomon’s extremely unique marriage system.

3. Most Christians are blind to what’s in The Song of Songs and consider it only as love poetry’

But to your point, yes, living at the mercy of immature sexual impulses is going to cause a problem. Instead, be wise like …. [? 🙄]

[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

Another example:

Imagining your ears being suckled and kissed generously,
& hearing joyful little laughs & sounds of hungry passionate desire from the giver

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[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

For the example ⬆️

“Slow Hands”

https://t.co/3f5HGVFnR2

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[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

I receive intuitive images sometimes…

I was talking with someone about his sex life & received an image to slap him on the face, as a positive thing.

He LOVES that

See what unfolded for ONE part of improving sexual intimacy with his wife…

[Later we discovered more of HER turn on]

[GIDI @Gidi_Traffic]

Which is your favorite ?

[Lulie @reasonisfun]

The type of love I’m talking about is something close to “acceptance”, but without having to agree. It’s close to “embracing”, but less active. It’s a curious openness, an alive beholding.

[Krisztina Maria @KrisztinaMaria]

Sex and sexuality is not a taboo in Christianity.

It is a gift.

And it’s not something we should be ashamed of. Even when people on ‘the other side’ try to weaponize it against us.

Let me be clear. I am not talking about promiscuity. I am talking about the life force. The fire God Himself placed within us.

And I am tired of seeing women turned into “bad Christians” because they dare to embrace their sexuality. As if holiness required women to make themselves smaller. Drier. More invisible.

That is not Christianity. That is control.

Sex is holy!

Not because it is neat, quiet and wrapped in modesty, but because it is one of the most intense ways two human beings can ever meet.

It is the only act in which two create life together with the Creator Himself. It is not a trifle. It is not a sin. It is a gateway.

To ask a woman to dampen her desire, suppress her fire, make herself less sexual in order to be “pious enough” - that is the same as asking her to dampen her life force. To put out what God lit. To cut into what He called good.

And here is what most overlook:

Taking full ownership of your sexual desire is not only about sex.

Sexual energy is the same energy that drives everything creative in a human being.

Used with care and deep awareness, it becomes an engine - a force to channel into the world all that God has placed in you to bring forth.

Books. Movements. Children. Visions. The courage to say what no one else dares to say. The endurance to build what others give up on. The magnetism that makes people listen when you speak.

I say this because I know it.

I would never be where I am today if I had not, in full trust, surrendered to and owned my sexuality with everything it is and contains. And that is no small thing. It is not for anyone.

Because once you release what lies deep down in the darkness - all the raw power, all the longing, all the intensity we have been taught to be ashamed of - things rise to the surface that most cannot hold. Neither in themselves nor in others.

That is why they hold back. That is why they teach their daughters to do the same. That is why women are taught it is holier to be half than to be whole.

But when you suppress that force, you do not only suppress desire. You suppress the voice. The courage. The creative power. The ability to stand alone when it is required. The ability to love without losing yourself. You dim the fire God lit - and call it piety. It is not. It is amputation.

A woman who has shut down her sexuality has shut down her creative power. They are not two separate sources. They are one. The same fire that ignites healthy desire between man and woman is the fire that drives the artist, the prophet, the leader, the mother, the warrior.

Put out one end of the bonfire, and you lose the warmth in the whole house.

That is why the suppression of women’s sexuality has always been one of the most effective instruments of power in history. Not because women’s desire is dangerous to God, but because a woman who stands fully in her life force is dangerous to any system that lives off her being half.

“To be lifted up to God” are not empty words. It is not metaphor. It is what happens when two people meet in love, in surrender, in trust - and forget where they end and the other begins.

It is a sacrament without an altar. A prayer without words. A moment where flesh and spirit are no longer separate - because they were never meant to be.

God created us as body. He called it good. He gave us desire, not as a flaw to be repaired, but as a force to be lived - stewarded with the same seriousness as anything else that is holy.

Stop teaching women and our daughters that their desire is dangerous. Teach them that it is holy.

Teach them that it is fuel. And teach them to steward it with the dignity a gift from God deserves.

A whole woman is exactly what the Creator had in mind.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​❤️‍🔥🪽✝️

[Amanda 🩷✨ @RosesUnfolding]

@anabology @AdaHopperSF For the inner labia, or internally? 🤔