Your real soulmate will naturally make you feel seen, heard, understood, protected, appreciated, supported, and loved. They will want to heal, grow and evolve with you mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually.
I’m not impressed by what kind of car you drive, or what job you got, or the house you live in or your social status. I’m impressed by the mindset you have, the heart you hold and the way you value yourself & others around you.
A girl on tik tok said “I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect” and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
Maturity is seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in you, regardless of what they say. Manipulation is when they give you all of the right words, but all of the wrong actions. If they wanted to, they would. Period.
The older you get, the more you choose composure over chaos, and distance over disrespect. You prioritize your peace, mental health and happiness — over everything.
I’m officially at the age I don’t want to be around people who are not self aware. Continuously putting themselves in bad positions, making bad life choices, toxic ways/lifestyles, no priorities lacking accountability etc.
A woman can’t nurture or love in all the magical ways that she knows how to love if she doesn’t feel protected or safe enough to exist fully in her feminine energy. Before a man wonders why a woman is not filling his emotional tank, he should ask himself why she doesn’t feel safe