The dirtiest manipulation during a breakup is when a person has already decided to leave u, but they are too much of a coward to take the first step. They are afraid to make that decision and take responsibility, so they intentionally create unbearable conditions for u. They provoke u into arguments, emotional instability, and push you to the point where the idea of ending the relationship comes from u. So that you are the one who does it, and the blame for destroying the relationship falls on u.
i know anxious/avoidant attachment styles are drawn to one another… but what happens if a normal person pretending to be crazy meets an actual crazy person trying their fucking best to be normal 🫥 #trauma
@humbug1969@Rainmaker1973 literally google “backcountry skiing requirements.” most of these areas legally require a shovel, avalanche beacon, and tons of other gear / permits. or face fines, monstrous airvac fees, and more likely than not death. this dude is so lucky.