approach group chat

your daily reminder to approach. I was doing zero approaches for a couple years, then did over 700 in 8 months. wouldn’t have done it without our group chat

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

Delete your porn bookmarks and approach the next couple months

Got a new idea this month and next for our group

It’s a little crazy, but it works

It’s free if you complete 10 cold approach sessions the next 2 months, and you pay $300 up front (get your money back if you approach)

I tried to get guys to approach for almost a year now, and only a very small few have stuck with it

So the payment provides the motivation to do it. I’ve done this before myself with friends. Again it works

I don’t even have this community for money, it’s just a side thing for fun

No other CA communities I’m aware of have this sort of setup

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

If a girl tells you to take pics of her in the first few times you meet, red flag

Using you for social media content to bang other dudes

Not good

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

Owen cook in his prime

Before his mind got warped into something odd

Needs to take a year off and meditate, lose weight, and channel his old self

Spitting fire back then

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

The best girls dont ask many questions. If they are asking you more than 20-30% of the questions, that is a bad sign

“Why did you and your last gf break up?”
“How has your experience been on (insert dating app)?”

“How has (insert dating app) been treating you?” a dating influencer must tell them to ask this

“What are your goals?” (Had a girl ask this once on first date)
“How many girlfriends have you had?”

[Westside L.A. Guy @WestsideLAGuy]

The most annoying questions a girl can ask on a date:

"What do you have going on rest of the week?"
"What are you looking for?"
"What do you do for work?"
"Any travel plans for rest of the year?"
"What do you like to do for fun?"

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

It’s not recommend date women who are into pole dancing, or risqué paper dancing such as this. Hip hop dancing is also not good (too ghetto manly). Other dancing like k-pop may be okay, if they are mostly anti social

Definitely no to salsa or battacha or any of that where they’re hugging on random dudes.

A little too performative. looking for attention from dudes, and posting their borderline thirst trap vids online

[Lindy Capital @LindyCapitalBDC]

POV: You're a white dude who just got home from work after a long day to be greeted by your state sponsored beautiful mid asian wife

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

There would be a cataclysmic drop in dinner date requests if women were expected to start paying half if they didn’t hook up/continue dating after first date

[Aruvin 💊 @aruvinchan]

The equivalent of a "pump and dump" for a man is this:

1. You take her out to dinner + pay for it all.

2. You even send her an Uber.

3. At the end, you hug her goodbye.

4. You text her, "Had a nice time with you, we should do that again."

5. She replies, "Blah blah blah you're a really nice guy blah blah blah no spark."

6. You 2 never ever talk or see each other ever again.

Seems to be quite the epidemic these days!

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

“Guys should hit on girls but be respectful”

They always say respectful when it comes to approach

Why do they need to add the qualifier

Forcing “respectful” neuters the interaction, why all convos are the same and boring, leads to inauthentic interaction

Girls should realize if they are going to be open to human interaction it’s going to be messy

Sometimes you’ll have a guy who’s uncalibrated, sometimes smooth

One guy could approach a girl a certain way and she loves it, another hates it

Just be open to more human interaction in general if you’re in public or reject them. Stop adding dumb qualifiers to make it sound better

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

99% of replies are “he did something wrong”

He didn’t do anything wrong, this is just what happens when you interact with random humans. and random females things become 10x more psycho

[Colonel Keezner @Colonel_Keez]

I wish i was making this up.

A girl stopped me on my run today.

When I approached her, I said, can I help you?

She goes yeah you're really hot.

We exchanged a little bit of small talk, and I told her that I'd grab her Instagram because I have to go finish my run.

Naturally, when I went home, I messaged her and invited her out for drinks and this is what she said.

Then she blocked me

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

I definitely don’t believe his story about a girl stopping him

But the girl rejecting and blocking is normal behavior of a female

[Colonel Keezner @Colonel_Keez]

I wish i was making this up.

A girl stopped me on my run today.

When I approached her, I said, can I help you?

She goes yeah you're really hot.

We exchanged a little bit of small talk, and I told her that I'd grab her Instagram because I have to go finish my run.

Naturally, when I went home, I messaged her and invited her out for drinks and this is what she said.

Then she blocked me

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

This accurate

Why when you share your autistic interests with a woman on a date

She ghosts, doesn’t hook up, or vagina dries up

She became your home boy

She might as well have a diock between the legs at that point

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

@gregogallagher Streets need a @Clavicular0 x greg collabo

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

When you have a baby you realize most of the day is hanging around taking care of them

So might as well be sitting in a place where it can make you some money

The Gypsy’s are just optimizing, they aren’t in a tough position

Also gets your child fresh air

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

New trend is guys using all lower case on dating apps

And using aol style language like “rly”

Desperately trying to relate to the girl or act cool to separate themselves from the other guys

It’s a trend that will not end well

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

Hooking up after having drinks is a shaky foundation

Meeting next time is a little more awkward. You still have to figure out if you like each other sober

Better do coffee/juice. Shows you have balls to pull and can hang out sober together whenever. Sex also better. Shows she actually likes you and not just drunk

Strong foundation

If you need drinks to vibe with girl not great fit long term anyway

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

How it feels when youre 8 replies deep on a Twitter beef and the other guy finally stops replying

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

@JackPakAttack @grok is this AI?

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

Guys will have all of these detailed theories

“If you send a specific time to meet that’s better”

“Don’t tell her the location first”

“Ask her schedule first or no way she’ll meet”

“Girls who meet in daytime dont hook up”

All of the strategies can work if you just put in the work and keep doing what YOU think works

The common denominator is putting in the effort and building a process that fits for you

If you follow tactics blindly, without developing own intuition and adjusting, the tactics will lose their steam

process + intuition + high activity = results

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

If you exclude tatted and ghetto talking white chicks, odds are probably 1 in a million

Fauchiv another fake scam

[Smirkley @Smirkley]

If you had condomless sex with 100 random white women, the odds of getting HIV would be 1 in 105,000.

That’s before adjusting for college and lack of injection drug use, and other factors.

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

“I have bad social anxiety. Been off dating for a long time. What can I do to get a girl to go out with me and date me”

Jumping ahead too much. Need to just start at the baseline, workout, eat healthy, get some sun, get good pics, buy premium on all dating apps. Go out 3 times a week and chat up girls and grab contacts. Build base of contacts through apps and approach. Ask girls on dates. Ask girls to go home. Repeat. In a few months you will have a girl to choose from

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

@ceochristianm This sounds like an AI comment

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

No matter how bad your game is

If you go on 20 coffee/tea/juice dates, and ask every single girl to come home with you

25-35% will say yes

So why don’t guys get laid? They don’t have a funnel to hit 20 dates, and they don’t ask them to come home

Mainly because they’re more worried about the girl’s “feelings” on a date, rather than what they want

[approach group chat @dg_groupchat]

@ludwigbrazos Waiting for a woman to lead the interaction is not good advice for males