And it's simply the fact.
How is it that showcasing the sensitive parts of your body attracts more engagements to you as a woman, than when you showcase the sensible part of your brain?
Shit attracts flies.
End.
Women often end up with excessive vanity and arrogance because men don’t forcefully disagree with them - so they think they are right about everything.
Men don’t disagree with young women because they want to sleep with them – or with older women because they don’t want to be nagged.
Men disagree with and argue with each other all the time, which is why we tend to develop more humility.
Desiring and loving your husband is not pick me behavior. It’s not male centered. You birds are weird AF. Just be honest you are jealous of these women’s marriage because you desire it. Maybe if your attitude and character wasn’t shit someone would commit and love you.
So a lot of times I hear Ladies say things like..
“Men love being providers, it makes them feel good when they’re able to provide”
Then when it’s time to state what makes them(women) feel good, they start listing what Men should do for them again.
I’m like.. If a Man doing something for YOU makes HIM feel good, shouldn’t what makes you feel good be something you do for your Man too ?
But I get it if you don’t get it.. Y’all are so soaked in self-centeredness that all you want to do is RECEIVE either-ways, so i’ll just speak to the Men instead….
If your girl is stating things that makes her happy/feel good and it’s all about things you should be doing for her(as against what she does for you)
Re-evaluate that union bro.
"Everybody is single till they're married"
"Chike didn't do anything bad"
"Go for women you can afford"
"Don't let your man stop you from finding your husband"
All these rules were mad by women but guess the gender crying since
They are angry because Audrey Cyril is a virgin, and she’s getting married to a man who slept with multiple women.
According to them, he doesn’t deserve someone who’s a virgin, a deserves a girl who’s loose and have slept with multiple men. How dare him sleep with different women and end up with a virgin.
They are all angry at themselves because he used them to wait for his precious virgin wife.
The problem with this generation is its value system. What they are doing in Nigeria is not love.
They keep monetizing love and commitment, and asking men to go for only women they can afford, while constantly brokeshaming the poor and telling them they don't deserve love or relationship and should focus on making money.
As a consequence, you cannot regulate how many women a man who has hustled and made money can have. You have to be consistent. He can afford 30 women, so he would carry 30.
If you want to promote healthy relationship, you have to stop monetizing relationship and commitment. You cannot be selling commitment and asking to be the only client. It doesn't work that way. People are not stupid. The buyer knows you are for sale and he knows he can buy many of you. Innocent people are just the collateral damage of this value system. Everybody go collect