rendang sebenernya awet bgt makanya dulu ibunya malin kundang masak rendang untuk bekal malin kundang merantau, di box makanan itu si ibu nulis:
for malin
Di industri perbankan, ada 'mandatory leave' atau 'block leave'. Cuti wajib minimal 5 hari.
Selama cuti, ga boleh balas e-mail, approve dokumen, datang ke kantor pun ga boleh.
Biar apa? Biar ga gini. Biar sistem back up berjalan, biar kalo fraud gampang ketauan.
Gak ada yg buat aku iri selain anak yang di besarkan di lingkungan yg komunikasi nya baik, sehingga tumbuh besar gak bawa byk 'trauma' yg ngefek ke perilaku
Ngomong lancar, gak belibet, mampu ngeluarin pendapat dgn baik, brpikir logis, sabar d setiap komentar, ahh ya ampun 🫶
Kalau seseorang udah nentuin lo itu “siapa” di kepala mereka,
apa pun yang lo lakuin bakal selalu mereka lihat dari sudut pandang itu.
Mau lo jelasin, mau lo berubah,
tetap aja bakal dipelintir biar sesuai sama versi mereka.
Di titik itu, sebenarnya udah bukan soal lo lagi,
tapi soal cara mereka melihat dan menilai.
Jadi nggak semua hal harus lo benerin,
karena kadang yang bermasalah bukan lo…
tapi persepsi mereka yang udah terlanjur kebentuk.
I texted my husband at 9 am about my Mom's bad health... By 9:15 he was home.
He cleared his schedules, put me in the car, sat beside me for 8 hours in an uncomfortable hospital chair, missed a whole work day... and still kept checking if my dad and I had eaten or had water.
He asked doctors the questions my mind was too numb to form... He never complained not even once.
Moments like these remind me what love actually looks like... It's not flowers or fancy dates... it's
showing up when it matters.
Because truly, if He wants to, He will.
Nenekku gapernah sefrontal ini
Cuma dia suka bilang
"Cewe tuh gabisa milih, beda sama cowo"
"Ya cewe kalo kebanyakan nuntut kan gak bagus, kalo cowo emg udah harusnya"
I really hate it, gwe bukan barang yg cuma bisa nunggu buat dipilih
I’ve seen men walk away from 5–10 year relationships, then turn around and marry a woman they’ve known for 6 months suddenly doing all the things their ex begged for years. Word of advice, stop preaching to these men. They hear you. He’s just never going to become the man you want him to be because you’re not the woman he wants to be with. People don’t change for love in general, they change for who they truly want.
Saya lulus kuliah 2020, bahkan baru bisa bener-bener menikmati uang jerih payah sendiri sejak 2025 loh.
Uangnya kemana? Buat bayarin hutang keluarga saya yang jumlahnya ratusan juta itu, bukan saya habiskan foya-foya.
Bahkan saya tetep harus cover biaya asuransi dan spp kuliah adik saya karena ayah saya ngga sanggup. Mau nolak? Tentu tapi saya malas ribut.
Come on, ngga semua orang yang ngga punya duit itu manajemen uangnya jelek. Ya emang uangnya dialihkan supaya dapur tetap menyala.
When women choose not to date anymore,
New York Post = “Single women are choosing happiness over men because men aren’t stepping up.” Single women are happy being single and chasing career, goals and buying homes”
When men choose not to date anymore
New York posts = “is male loneliness epidemic affecting young men, “Incel culture is harming men and our society, and women fear these men might become dangerous.”
“
Is having a boyfriend embarrassing now?”
This right 🖕here is why many men are giving up on dating and marriage. No one holds women accountable.
No one teaches them how to treat their partners.
Women don’t hold each other accountable,
the government doesn’t hold them accountable,
and even their families and friends rarely teach them how to maintain a healthy relationship or be accountable.
These women live life on “easy mode,” with no warnings. No one is checking and correcting them. No one is telling them about self reflections, and self awareness.
If no one is willing to tell them the truth, what makes you think they will ever listen to men or allow men to lead in the home? Why wouldn’t these women see men leading as controlling? Women are the ones destroying the lives of other women.
karena kalian memandang bekerja hanya dari nilai ekonomi saja right? gubrak sih kalo udah berumah tangga dan terus berpikir demikian. welcome kerja-kerja kognitif, kerja domestik, kerja perawatan, mental load, double burden.
reminder aja sih..
kalian kalau nyebrang malam-malam, tolong nyalain flash hp ya.. mau itu jalan yang besar atau jalan yang kecil.
dari pov pengendara (mau motor/mobil) kadang liat penyebrang tuh asal nyebrang aja gapake aba-aba suka bikin deg-degan dan sakit kepala -
why are men so self conscious about their height like there are many more important flaws to be self conscious about for example the lack of emotional intelligence
If you let it, your parents will infantilize you until you’re 50
You have to deliberately break free from that trap sometime in your late teens/early 20s.