When you're growing, it's painful. When you're stagnating, it's painful. When you're declining, and you're not sure what to do, it's also painful.
All conditions of reality can be painful; pain is a just one of many conditions of reality.
Pain is a signal that you're alive.
Fire offloaded warmth. The wheel offloaded weight. The printing press offloaded memory. Every leap in human progress has been a story of handing some piece of work to a tool so we could free our minds.
The Assumption of Normalcy is reasonable in everyday life, where most people are normal. It is not a safe assumption on the internet, where almost everything you see is made by a small group of insane people.
In the Tarot, The Fool is Card Zero. It sits outside the numbered sequence entirely, which is itself the point.
The Fool is the soul before it has accumulated the weight of knowledge, before it has learned what it is โsupposedโ to do.
Do not think that you can go with the flow and someone else will anticipate your sincerest needs and desires for you. That is a great strategy for not getting what you want.