There’s a quiet confidence that comes with getting older and realizing life doesn’t have to unfold in the order you were taught. Certain milestones lose their urgency, solitude becomes less intimidating, and you become more selective about what deserves to disrupt your peace.
@muheediva01 My parents and I helped my bf at the time renovate his whole house. Now I’m no longer living there and don’t get to see/enjoy what we worked on
It saddens me that so many people have gone through an avoidant discard. It’s not a normal breakup, it’s fundamentally one of the most traumatizing things you can experience.
one of the main reasons i'm so gentle with myself is cause i believe i've already experienced enough hardship in my life. i've already been mishandled and undervalued by others and myself at times. so i deserve more patience, forgiveness, and consideration at this point.
I think the purest form of love is just wanting someone to notice life with you. "taste this. look at that. hear this song." again and again. until you can't imagine noticing life without them